I have 5 girls and she pushes me to walk away from her on a daily ,because I'm going to lose my cool..She is LAZY they all have chores same ones every morning her room , picking up under coughs , and sweeping her dad's office (small). EVERY morning it's a fight she screams and cries, it takes her like 3 hours to clean a small room. Her and her sister have been breaking things last straw was the solid wood rake. Now her and her 10 year old sister are earning the money to buy new ranks and they are staying grounded till the yard it raked ,my 10 year old just gets out there every morning and does it. Well today my oldest said I'm going out to do my job my 7 year old didn't want to go out she would rather stay grounded in bed. My oldest rakes the piles up my 7 year old loads the sled w leafs and takes them to burn pile. Well when they are working as a team my oldest rakes the leafs in to the sled. Well with her playing the I don't want to game. My oldest started doing piles. My 7 year old decided to go out ,but started screaming crying in the yard for my oldest to rake it in . But we told her the price for seating out was she puts leafs in sled on own she screams and throws a fit we spank her ( don't care if you don't agree) it was last straw. Anyway she just throws fit about any work and spankings are not working.. what do I do...I'm at a loss.right now.