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Is everyone a Racist? (PIOG)

SiriSilasMom

Aug. 30, 2008 at 12:11 PM by SiriSilasMom
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In lieu of the numerous posts that have been floating around lately I would like to know.  Is everyone that makes a "racial remark" racist?  Sometimes people say things out of anger or just for the sake of being mean and malicious because perhaps their feelings were hurt.  So based on 1 comment does this person fit under the racist umberella?

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mandjlong

by mandjlong on Aug. 30, 2008 at 12:13 PM

I believe so....because all racist remarks come from anger.. so if that was an excuss then there would be no racists!

CStanfield85

by CStanfield85 on Aug. 30, 2008 at 12:13 PM

I don't think that one comment being said out of anger or something is being a racist. To me, a racist is my sister who refuses to vote for Obama because of his skin color. Someone who doesn't go to this place or that place because there might be someone who isn't their same color there. I think it's sad that some people are racist. We are all the same, regardless of skin color.

momoftwins96

by momoftwins96 on Aug. 30, 2008 at 12:15 PM


Quoting CStanfield85:

I don't think that one comment being said out of anger or something is being a racist. To me, a racist is my sister who refuses to vote for Obama because of his skin color. Someone who doesn't go to this place or that place because there might be someone who isn't their same color there. I think it's sad that some people are racist. We are all the same, regardless of skin color.


I agree with her.

peytonsmama1024

by peytonsmama1024 on Aug. 30, 2008 at 12:16 PM

oh no get this. speaking of obama and being racist against him

i saw a truck a buisness truck that said this on the tale gate

 

BARACK HUSSIAENE(SP) OBAMA
THE ANTI-CHRIST WE DONT NEED A BLACK MAN

 

it made me want to puke

shamillionaire

by shamillionaire on Aug. 30, 2008 at 12:20 PM

That's kinda a hard question to answer. I think that saying a word does not make you racist I believe what is in your heart makes you a racist. I believe all people should be treated equally no matter their color, size, clothes they wear and so on... I will admit I get along better with black girls than I do white girls. The white girls I have met are usually judge mental and what I would call fake, valley girls....  So maybe in a sense I  am racist as well.... I like REAL people with individualtiy not the sheeps..... But again I do not classify it as all white people. Like the girls at the tanning salons, or Paris Hilton.... I hate all the Paris Hiltons of the world!!!

My greatest fear is that there is no PMS~ and this is my real personality...

CStanfield85

by CStanfield85 on Aug. 30, 2008 at 12:20 PM

WTF? That is absurd. I would have called that business and complained. lol

Quoting peytonsmama1024:

oh no get this. speaking of obama and being racist against him

i saw a truck a buisness truck that said this on the tale gate


BARACK HUSSIAENE(SP) OBAMA
THE ANTI-CHRIST WE DONT NEED A BLACK MAN


it made me want to puke


pregogirl

by pregogirl on Aug. 30, 2008 at 12:23 PM

I agree also. I say things out of anger ,I think most people are guilty of it. But I mostly say things out of Anger to my SO, So if thats the case id be sexist, not racist...lol. I am by far racist.

Quoting momoftwins96:


Quoting CStanfield85:

I don't think that one comment being said out of anger or something is being a racist. To me, a racist is my sister who refuses to vote for Obama because of his skin color. Someone who doesn't go to this place or that place because there might be someone who isn't their same color there. I think it's sad that some people are racist. We are all the same, regardless of skin color.


I agree with her.


SiriSilasMom

by SiriSilasMom on Aug. 30, 2008 at 12:27 PM

I agree, by the mere definition well one of them that is, racism is the hatred or intolerance of another race.  So everyone at one point in time has had some kind of intolerance towards another race.  People tend to discredit some one's feelings because they don't believe such things happen. IE, Black people being followed in a department store solely because they are black.  Or a white person being discriminated against based on Affirmative Action....These feelings by no means, mean we have hatred perse towards another race but it is what it is.

Quoting beaniabinx:

Not trying to start a fight.  But isn't everyone a bit racist?  Seriously think about it, everyone complains about the other one & their color when they don't get what they want.  I've heard it tons of times around here.  A part of me finds it funny, because as a person is complaining about how so and so is due to color or what ever they may have their best friend standing next to them that's exactly the same as so&so.  Everyone was created by one god, so what does it matter what color or whatever they came from. I'm not 100% white, think about it, I have tons of other nationalities running through my blood, Italian, Indian are only some.  Sorry I just think its getting more and more funny about the whole racist thing.  Everyone is at some point.


andrea_smkns

by andrea_smkns on Aug. 30, 2008 at 12:28 PM

I think everyone has a racist thoughts, and NO I dont mean towards someone skin color, because technically racist is basically judging someone by Race,religion,body type etc.

So if your making jokes about fat people or skinny people thats being racist. IMO

Anyways I dont care If I get bashed but I hope Obama wins Despite his skin color.


schaubchick

by schaubchick on Aug. 30, 2008 at 12:29 PM

I don't think everyone is a "bit racist".  I do, however, think that we are all prejudiced to varying degrees.  Prejudices tend to arise out of stereotypes, personal experiences and how a person was raised. 

OP: I do not think that one comment makes someone a racist.  I also do not think that all racist comments are made out of anger, some are made out of pure ignorance and for "shock value".  I hope that people can keep this post civil.  It will be interesting to read other's thoughts on the subject.

Quoting beaniabinx:

Not trying to start a fight.  But isn't everyone a bit racist?  Seriously think about it, everyone complains about the other one & their color when they don't get what they want.  I've heard it tons of times around here.  A part of me finds it funny, because as a person is complaining about how so and so is due to color or what ever they may have their best friend standing next to them that's exactly the same as so&so.  Everyone was created by one god, so what does it matter what color or whatever they came from. I'm not 100% white, think about it, I have tons of other nationalities running through my blood, Italian, Indian are only some.  Sorry I just think its getting more and more funny about the whole racist thing.  Everyone is at some point.


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