The CafeMom Newcomers Club
How did you ladies handle what i've been told is the "quarter life crisis or 2nd phase of puberty"??????????????
------its that weird phase you go through right after you've had kids (gained a little weight and can't fit back into your club dresses), finished college/obtained your first real job, and settled down with one man-------- were you happy that you changed into a different person, or did you regret some things about it?

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by vbongard on Nov. 17, 2008 at 8:26 AMI have a love hate relationship with it. I love who I have become, and hate who i lost. My life now revolves around my home and family. I am no longer an individual, only a mom. I have not gone out without at least one kid in tow more than 2 or 3 times in 8 years, and have not been out with the girls in over 3 years. I have lost the ability to talk to or relate to women my age, and have become a home body. I could go on and on. I love being a mom and would not change a thing, but sometimes I miss who I was. |
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by Sofie-Fatale on Nov. 22, 2008 at 7:56 PMthis all sounds familiar |
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