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Quarter Life Crisis/2nd phase puberty

Sofie-Fatale

Nov. 15, 2008 at 8:02 PM by Sofie-Fatale
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How did you ladies handle what i've been told is the "quarter life crisis or 2nd phase of puberty"??????????????

------its that weird phase you go through right after you've had kids (gained a little weight and can't fit back into your club dresses), finished college/obtained your first real job, and settled down with one man-------- were you happy that you changed into a different person, or did you regret some things about it?

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vbongard

by vbongard on Nov. 17, 2008 at 8:26 AM

I have a love hate relationship with it.  I love who I have become, and hate who i lost.  My life now revolves around my home and family.  I am no longer an individual, only a mom.  I have not gone out without at least one kid in tow more than 2 or 3 times in 8 years, and have not been out with the girls in over 3 years.  I have lost the ability to talk to or relate to women my age, and have become a home body.  I could go on and on.  I love being a mom and would not change a thing, but sometimes I miss who I was.

Sofie-Fatale

by Sofie-Fatale on Nov. 22, 2008 at 7:56 PM

this all sounds familiarblowing kisses

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