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Would you ever remarry if:

Kellileanne

Nov. 20, 2008 at 9:49 PM by Kellileanne
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If your current marriage didn't work out, would you ever remarry?  I know this is wierd to think about but having marrital problems it makes me think.  I would probably be afraid to???  And, if dh deploys and dies over there I don't think I would ever get over it enough to even date again.  Just curious if anyone else ever thinks about these things.

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momoftwins96

by momoftwins96 on Nov. 20, 2008 at 9:50 PM

I dont think so. I would date but I am not planning on having any more kids so I really see no reason to marry again...once is enough for me lol

dragonflykiss44

by dragonflykiss44 on Nov. 20, 2008 at 9:51 PM

I dont know if i would or not...if something were to happen i'd probably try and learn to be happy on my own for a while. if i was ready and found someone who loved me AND my kids then maybe...not sure though.

usmcvalle

by usmcvalle on Nov. 20, 2008 at 9:52 PM

Everyone grieves different.  I knew another girl on a website where her dh got KIA in Iraq and she remarried 6 mos later.  I personally don't think I would be able to date for a couple of years and I would focus on my baby. But eventually I think it would be unhealthy and unnatural to not feel affection for someone ever again.

Partyof4plus1

by Partyof4plus1 on Nov. 20, 2008 at 9:53 PM

After my divorce I said I'd never marry again.  2 years after it was final I found myself marrying the man of my dreams.  I guess you should never say never.........and you never know how you are going to handle something until you are confronted with that particular situation.

Tiffatoe

by Tiffatoe on Nov. 20, 2008 at 9:53 PM

I would be open to it...my mom and grandmother were young widows (early-mid 30s) and they never remarried, so you never know.


milspouse23

by milspouse23 on Nov. 20, 2008 at 9:53 PM

I think about it too, especially the one if something were to happent o DH while he was deployed. If he died. I really doubt I'd ever move on. I doubt our marriage would ever fail though. I truly believe he is my soulmate. I used to dream of him..and this was BEFORE I met him.

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cryssi_renee

by cryssi_renee on Nov. 20, 2008 at 9:54 PM

if we got divorced i probably would but if he died i don't think i would or at least not until my kids were grown

trist22

by trist22 on Nov. 20, 2008 at 9:54 PM

I probably would.. yes...

ljsmamma07

by ljsmamma07 on Nov. 20, 2008 at 9:56 PM

if we got divorsed, probably, after a very long time of dating.if he ever died...i dont think that i would.

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michmelody

by michmelody on Nov. 20, 2008 at 9:57 PM

I worried about something happening to my DH when he was deployed.  I wondered if I would ever be able to move on or not.....Sometimes I felt like yeah maybe after a while but then others I thought HELL NO and I would probably be locked up in a loony bin because I would have had a crazy attack!  My girls picked my husband...I know it sounds weird but it is true.  After their dad and I split up when they were 10 months old they wouldn't let any guys near me...EVER.  Until I met DH when they were 14 months old.  They were all over him and wanted to play and be with him...forget mommy.  I feel like that would never happen again so it would be very hard for me to trust anyone enough (I have major trust issues).  Plus DH has had to put up with a lot of crap and I don't think just any guy will ever be able to handle it like he does.  So it is hard saying but the way I feel right now....probably not.

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