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supermommie1

Nov. 21, 2008 at 11:59 AM by supermommie1
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   ok so this morning. my husband helps me out by letting me sleep in a bit... well all i hear is her screaming so i go down stairs and i see whats the matter.. nothing he is just trying to feed her her ceral... so i tried to feed it to her.. after two bites iam like huh this looks funny... so i asked.. did you mix this with her milk?

he goes you told me to never give her milk.. ( baby is 10 months) husband just got home from deployment..

i said.. no not normal milk... her milk, her formula???? he stayed silent.. i knew the answer.. he just mixed it with water... and fed most of it to her....

i was pissed.. super pissed,,,

anyways my question is... can that hurt her? damage her? as soon as i found out  igave her a 4 oz bottle and then after that fed her normal ceaearl.... but should i be lookin for anything? can she get sick?

OK SO FIRST. I NEVER YELLED AT HIM.. I WAS PISSED. AND HE KNEW IT. SO HE JUST WAITED TO TALK TO ME... I NEVER YELL AT HIM.. NEVER.. BUT YES THIS IS MY FIRST BABIE AND IAM THE MOST OVER PARANOIED MOTHER YOU WILL EVER MEET TRUST ME.... WAYY TO OVER PARANOIED BUT CANT HELP IT. I ONLY WANNA KEEP HER SAFE AND PERFECT AND I WOULD DIIE IF SHE EVER GOT SICK..

ANYWAYS.. MY HUSBAND DID READ MY POST AND JUST LAUGHED.. HE ALREADY KNOWS IAM SUPER SUPER SORRY.. AND HAVE TOTALLY MADE IT UP TO HIM.. AND HE DID READ THE BOX THATS WHY HE GAVE HER WATER.. NOW I DO GIVE HER WATER THUR OUT THE DAY... NO JUICE WHAT SO EVER.. NONE.. AND I FEED HER LOTS OF OTHER THINGS AS WELL.. BUT IN THE MORNING I GIVE HER CEREAL CUZ I DONT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO GIVE HER IN THE MORNING...

FOR THE MOMS WHO YELLED AT ME... STOP.. CUZ I NEVER YELLED AT HIM.. JUST HE KNOWS WHEN IAM UPSET.

FOR THE MOMS WHO UNDERSTOOD HOW I FELT.. THANKS.. I DOT FEEL BAD ANY MORE NAD MY HUBBY FORGAVE ME FOR BEING UPSET.. AND WE HAVE HAD A LIL TALK AND HE KNOWS I LOVE HIM AND THANKFULL HE IS HOME AND HOW WONDERFUL IT IS FOR HIM TO HELP ME OUT AND FEED HER THIS MORNING WHEN HE WENT TO BED LAST NITE AT 3:30AM.. I TELL HIM EVERYDAY THAT HE IS THE BEST FATHER AND HUSBAND EVERYDAY  CUZ IAM SOO HAPPY TO FINALLY HAVE HIM HOME NOW...

 

and yes i did spank him...lol no did not put a hose down his throat..lol next time maybe..lol

you ladies are funny love you all

~supermommie~
Written by supermommie1 on Nov. 21, 2008 at 11:59 AM Send supermommie1 a message

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mommy_10

by mommy_10 on Nov. 21, 2008 at 12:02 PM

No ~~~she should be just fine....An honest mistake......

heartsandskulls

by heartsandskulls on Nov. 21, 2008 at 12:02 PM

i dont see why she would get damaged..its just water

rachie1843

by rachie1843 on Nov. 21, 2008 at 12:02 PM

dont freak out on your hubby, he didnt know.  nothing can happen to her from eating cereal with just water and not formula mixed with it.  water is perfectly fine for kids of all ages

Mellhanks

by Mellhanks on Nov. 21, 2008 at 12:03 PM

I agree and don't be so hard on him he is new at this to and has been gone.  Bet you made him feel awful

Quoting mommy_10:

No ~~~she should be just fine....An honest mistake......


ChristineSellsT

by ChristineSellsT on Nov. 21, 2008 at 12:04 PM

yep....to the op ~ you sound a little sleep deprived...get some rest!

Quoting mommy_10:

No ~~~she should be just fine....An honest mistake......


KimmyShaw

by KimmyShaw on Nov. 21, 2008 at 12:04 PM

exactly

Quoting rachie1843:

dont freak out on your hubby, he didnt know.  nothing can happen to her from eating cereal with just water and not formula mixed with it.  water is perfectly fine for kids of all ages




yelhsals21

by yelhsals21 on Nov. 21, 2008 at 12:05 PM

It tells you on the back that you can mix it with water.  Anyway, she's 10 months old...you don't give her water yet...juice?

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MrsCarlet

by MrsCarlet on Nov. 21, 2008 at 12:06 PM

I agree.

Quoting Mellhanks:

I agree and don't be so hard on him he is new at this to and has been gone.  Bet you made him feel awful

Quoting mommy_10:

No ~~~she should be just fine....An honest mistake......

 


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lackingsleep

by lackingsleep on Nov. 21, 2008 at 12:06 PM

the box says to mix with water or formula i think.  she'll be fine

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tamlub

by tamlub on Nov. 21, 2008 at 12:06 PM

thats what i was thinking.I always mixed the kids cereal with water.Says you can right on the box

Quoting heartsandskulls:

i dont see why she would get damaged..its just water


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