I'm taking him to the humane society

First of all with you being pregnant you are not to be changing the kitty litter or even messing with the poop. So I would take it to the humane society unless you know of someone that would take it for you.

Have you talked to the vet? There could be some underlying medical condition.

I hope you don't get a bunch of mean responces. I think with you being pregnant it might be best. Does he have a medical problem that could be taken care of though?

What about the vet??  IMO you are giving up before you try by taking him to the humane society.  If nothing else can't you find a no-kill shelter??  I mean...by sending an older cat to a shelter is deciding it's fate.  Just doesn't saound fair.

Bump!!  would call the vet and see what they say is a reason he's doing this!

i agree with this,,and you can clean the litter just wear gloves

Quoting shannona9706:

Have you talked to the vet? There could be some underlying medical condition.

Quoting shannona9706:

Have you talked to the vet? There could be some underlying medical condition.

I was going to say this.

However, bottom line is that you and your family are more important than any animal. I know that may be an unpopular view to some in here, but I really don't care lol.  If you do what you are willing and capable of doing health wise and you can't reach a resolution that is agreeable to your family, then the kitty has to go. That's all there is to it.

not to be mean but you should try the vet first. my sis cat went out yesterday and he got hit by a car. she found him today and he was really beat up. other animal hospitals wanted to put him down but she found one that took him in. he just had surgery and should be getting better. i know it's a pet but really they become family. good luck with your cat.

i have with this response

Quoting teri4lance:

 

Quoting shannona9706:

Have you talked to the vet? There could be some underlying medical condition.

I was going to say this.

However, bottom line is that you and your family are more important than any animal. I know that may be an unpopular view to some in here, but I really don't care lol.  If you do what you are willing and capable of doing health wise and you can't reach a resolution that is agreeable to your family, then the kitty has to go. That's all there is to it.

You could try the vet, sometime they know someone looking for an animal and maybe the cat just needs a home where its just him...no kids:)  Good luck I know thats a super hard decision but you have to put the kiddos first:)