Friend question..(Updated again in green)

I'd be honest.  Tell her you don't want to be her friend & why.

I would ignore it this time, if she asks again, then just tell her.

Or you could send her a message and say, I will except you as my friend for ___ amount of dollars :)

I really had that thought too. lol But I would assume she has forgotten all about it.

Quoting M0M0F03:

I would ignore it this time, if she asks again, then just tell her.

Or you could send her a message and say, I will except you as my friend for ___ amount of dollars :)

If you don't want to be her friend, politely ignore her. If she persists, just say that you don't want that kind of negativity in your life, and wish her well. Good luck. It's hard telling someone you don't want to be her friend, but not impossible.

I would send her a message back stating that when you lended her the money, you expected to get all of it back. Tell her how much it hurt that she decided not to repay you and that until that debt is paid back you don't think you can be friends with her. Be honest and let her know that until the debt is repaid, it would be too hard to associate with her. Good luck

i dunno, but i kind of think people always deserve a second chance. i would just accept her as a friend and if you have problems with her you can always delete her from your friends list. but if you really don't want to just ignore her or send her a message telling her why.

If you ignore a myspace request, can they keep requesting it? Or once its done. Its done?? Ignore not block.

They can continue to request unless you block them.

Quoting KellyOh72:

If you ignore a myspace request, can they keep requesting it? Or once its done. Its done?? Ignore not block.

Thanks. =)

Quoting okrasin:

They can continue to request unless you block them.

Quoting KellyOh72:

If you ignore a myspace request, can they keep requesting it? Or once its done. Its done?? Ignore not block.

 

i would just message back and forth or awhile before adding her.  i have learned to never hold a grudge against anyone because you never know what will happen.  did you two hve good times?  do those good times outweigh the bad ones?  i think you should try to talk to her, maybe she wants to say sorry about everything and accept that she was wrong.

i am telling you this because i too had a very close friend.  i really don't know why we stopped talking to eachother.  she says that i wasn't there for her, but i think i was there for her as much as i could be.  when she lost her virginity, she later found out she had a STD from that guy.  i was there when the doc told her.  i was going through some things as well.  i was molested by my moms exboyfriend and i was so depressed that i was cutting to make the pain go away.  she helped me get through that and get some help.  as much as i wanted to be there for her, i had my own demons that i had to battle.  she got into a fight with my other bff, and i kinda took my other bff's side.  i guess that's when everything went downhill.  now, 4 years later, i know where she works and i want to soooooo bad to be her friend again, but i am not sure she wants to. 

so i think you should give her a chance.  sorry it's so long!  lol