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How much did you?? TMI

Posted by on Oct. 12, 2009 at 1:26 AM
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I am wondering how much people bled when they lost their virginity? I didn't bleed a lot and I everyone else I know bled like a short period. So I was wondering if I am weird or something. Well my father molested me and I have no memory of it and as far as anyone knows he never penetrated me digitally or otherwise. But I have always wondered if maybe something more happened.. I know this may not make sense as what one thing has to do with the other, but I am just wondering maybe I didnt bleed as much because I wasnt actually a "virgin". It really bothers me that I can't remember what happened to me but at the same time I am relieved, but this question has been in my mind for awhile.


I feel better after reading these anwsers thanx! My friends all bleed alot but I didn't..now I feel better :)


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Ash_MacLachlan
by on Oct. 12, 2009 at 1:28 AM

Bump for you b/c I can't even remember.

1andonlysarissa
by on Oct. 12, 2009 at 1:29 AM

well i never bled my 1st time and has far as i remember i was not raped or anything growing up, i was told you dont always bleed god i hope thats true...

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NavyWifey122305
by on Oct. 12, 2009 at 1:30 AM

I bled for about a week

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ready_for2
by on Oct. 12, 2009 at 1:31 AM

i didnt bleed at all. i did the second time a little bit

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AryssasMommy
by on Oct. 12, 2009 at 1:31 AM

I bled for almost a week.  I thought that was normal but maybe not looking at yall's answers. 

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YouMeAnThree
by on Oct. 12, 2009 at 1:31 AM

i only bled very little!!


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CVislosky
by on Oct. 12, 2009 at 1:32 AM

I didn't bleed at all. Although I did bleed when I was preggo.  

stacyemmy
by Silver Member on Oct. 12, 2009 at 1:33 AM

I thought that everyone was different but all my friends bled like a week and  I had some spotting for a few hours afterwards..


After seeing these anwsers I'm starting to feel better..


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chairhead28
by Platinum Member on Oct. 12, 2009 at 1:33 AM

I never bled at all. My BFF just lost her virginity a month or two ago (she's 23) and she bled for a few days. I guess everyone's different.

              
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FaerieMommie23
by on Oct. 12, 2009 at 1:35 AM

I was molested as a child in daycare but it wasn't that part so I don't think it counts. I barely bled at all when I lost mine it was just like a little smear on the sheets pretty much. It was so little that I thought maybe we hadn't actually had sex lol


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