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IF you are an Uneducated, Unemployable SAHM...

Posted by on Nov. 3, 2009 at 12:41 AM
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I am a SAHM.  I am not saying that all stay at home moms are uneducated or unemployable. 


Why would a woman have children with and become dependent on a man before she had finished her education and had established a career?  Now many of these women become trapped in bad situations because they cannot take care of themselves or their children alone.

Why would anyone take such a huge risk with their lives and the lives of their children?  Especially in the case of women who are not even married to the men they are dependent upon.  Those women are even more at risk.


Posted by on Nov. 3, 2009 at 12:41 AM
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Avabliss
by on Nov. 3, 2009 at 12:43 AM

 Can't say cause I don't know anyone like that...

.....I know alot of amazing woman who have chosen to stay home with their kids because that was their choice and a few that got pregnant by mistake and now love being a SAHM mom with commited partners.....but none trapped by such an existence you are describing.

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Leeloo309
by on Nov. 3, 2009 at 12:44 AM

you just don't stop like the bunny huh 

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kgsharber
by Gold Member on Nov. 3, 2009 at 12:45 AM

 Why do you care?

lovemymarine306
by on Nov. 3, 2009 at 12:46 AM


                                  

Hayliesmom
by Silver Member on Nov. 3, 2009 at 12:46 AM

I think some women don't want to be over a certain age when they have kids.

Wasn't the point of Women's rights to give us a CHOICE whether or not we pursue a career or not?


 

gmorlett84
by Member on Nov. 3, 2009 at 12:50 AM

This is the same person that is always dogging sahm's. I love staying home and I do not consider myself uneducated. I think with me staying home, it will help my children out alot. And if I decide to go back to work, thats my choice. eye rolling 

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zianneaaliyah
by HBIC of ME on Nov. 3, 2009 at 12:51 AM

Whos sez we unedumacated? As long as Macdonols is hiring, we is always gon be implyabble.


Mamie_85
by Amy on Nov. 3, 2009 at 12:52 AM

don't give this person any more attention. just ignore the thread and it will eventually disappear. post some happy stuff until it's buried on another page.

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Lilcountrygrl86
by Amber on Nov. 3, 2009 at 12:52 AM

Well, I guess you could say I fit into that catogory.

I am a 23 year old hs drop out. I have a two year old and am expecting #2 in january.

I know it wasnt the smartest thing to do. But I cant go back and change things...I wouldnt change anything about haveing my daughter. I wish I could go back and graduate though. I had planned on getting my ged, and going back to school. I still plan to do so eventually. I know I should have done it along time ago, but you know what better late then never though.

Things didnt work out the way I planned but still.

Nicole88
by on Nov. 3, 2009 at 12:53 AM


Quoting zianneaaliyah:

Whos sez we unedumacated? As long as Macdonols is hiring, we is always gon be implyabble.

bahaha exactly :)




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