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I moved out at 19, same for hubby- got really sick and moved back home for about a year. So I was OUT for good by 20.
When were you out for good?

Quoting BakedBean999:
Which time? lol
lol, seriously though..I was 17 the first time, moved back in at 20 (a few months before my 21st birthday, and moved back out a month after I turned 21...
18 as soon as i legally could, cuz my step dad is the devil and my mom is crazy.
I moved out at 20 and moved in together with my best friend :) Dang I miss those times.. lol
18 when I went to college. Moved back with my daughter, and then moved back out when I could afford it :)

no offense... but white people confuse me.
you all spend so much time trying to toss those kids out of the house.
you know what? i never moved. sure i left at 18 and moved into an apartment but, i eventually came back, bought my family's home, and then added an inlaw addition on it for my parents.
because they are my family... and why would i want to be away from them?
our culture is different from what is common in the u.s.
we are portuguese and cicillian. it is unacceptable to our elderly into "homes" unless their medical needs CAN NOT be met within reason at home...i.e. alzheimer's disease.
so, their inlaw addition was built to accomodate their needs as they age.
mind you.. my parents are only 60 and both working proffesionals...they don't need to live with me at all.. or vice versa.
but when the time comes that they need help? i don't want to be traveling 30 minutes, an hour one way just to make sure my elderly parents haven't gotten hurt or are in need.
we have three generations on this property... it's nice.
old school.. the way i like it.

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3 months after I turned 17 ....
On my wedding day I moved out of my mom's house for good. I did stay with her for a bout a month while I was preg with 2nd and hubby was on the road driving truck while i got us a new house.

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Quoting mitch576:
no offense... but white people confuse me.
you all spend so much time trying to toss those kids out of the house.
you know what? i never moved. sure i left at 18 and moved into an apartment but, i eventually came back, bought my family's home, and then added an inlaw addition on it for my parents.
because they are my family... and why would i want to be away from them?
our culture is different from what is common in the u.s.
we are portuguese and cicillian. it is unacceptable to our elderly into "homes" unless their medical needs CAN NOT be met within reason at home...i.e. alzheimer's disease.
so, their inlaw addition was built to accomodate their needs as they age.
mind you.. my parents are only 60 and both working proffesionals...they don't need to live with me at all.. or vice versa.
but when the time comes that they need help? i don't want to be traveling 30 minutes, an hour one way just to make sure my elderly parents haven't gotten hurt or are in need.
we have three generations on this property... it's nice.
old school.. the way i like it.
I grew up in a very traditional Mexican family, so i completely understand, my bf is white i don't get his family at all, lol
I moved out when I was 17. But it was my choice. I had no career opportunities seeing I was living in a country town. My Mother couldn't help seeing we were all pretty much living on the poverty line. So I moved to the city by myself, got myself trained for the workforce, found a job and stayed there.
When I was 21 and financially stable, I then took my whole family in. I moved them from that shitty town and helped them till they could get back on their feet. So, in some ways my Mum was living with me. Not the other way around :P
I continued to rent the house that we all lived in together. But I also did housesitting for people for months at a time (usually upto 6 months for each house). It gave me free accommodation. All I had to do was pay for food and utilities. This was how I got myself back out of the rental I provided my Mum.
By the time I was 25, I then left again permanently after saving from my housesitting jobs. Now, my Mother, Brother and Sister were financially stable to take care of themselves.

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