so last saturday i find out my 2 year old daughter was molested.. then today my boyfriend goes to jail for driving while on a suspended lisence all because the guy who was driving him got drunk... then i found out he has been telling his ex wife he misses her and wants to come home... my heart hurts literally hurts right now...
i am so very sorry i hope things straighten out very soon
OMG I am so sorry! Is the person who harmed your child in jail? Is your boyfriend the bio dad of your daughter? How long have you been with him, and how long has he been divorced?
I hope it gets better soon.
wow! thats a lot to deal with mama!
But be thankful, even for the small things-- you guys caught her being molested so hopefully it doesnt have a lasting impression on her (opposed to not knowing and this continuing until she's old enough to truly understand whats going on and begin to feel like its her fault).
Maybe its good that your boyfriend went to jail? did you find out about his emotions because of him being in jail? At least now, you can figure out what you want to do- if he really misses his exwife, do you want to be with someone who wants another? is this something that can be fixed? if not, then you can always bounce back and find someone who actually deserves you.
you can throw a girl party- even if its just you and your daughter. no men allowed (this would only be if you live with your boyfriend.. if not, its kinda pointless).. but either way- you guys could always jam and party the night away (at least til bedtime).
I hope things get better for you though. You've been through enough, its time for some good news to come your way.
Quoting Shy_Dia:
wow! thats a lot to deal with mama!
But be thankful, even for the small things-- you guys caught her being molested so hopefully it doesnt have a lasting impression on her (opposed to not knowing and this continuing until she's old enough to truly understand whats going on and begin to feel like its her fault).
Maybe its good that your boyfriend went to jail? did you find out about his emotions because of him being in jail? At least now, you can figure out what you want to do- if he really misses his exwife, do you want to be with someone who wants another? is this something that can be fixed? if not, then you can always bounce back and find someone who actually deserves you.
you can throw a girl party- even if its just you and your daughter. no men allowed (this would only be if you live with your boyfriend.. if not, its kinda pointless).. but either way- you guys could always jam and party the night away (at least til bedtime).
I hope things get better for you though. You've been through enough, its time for some good news to come your way.
i thought that to then this uuugghhh
Ohhhhhhhhh, Momma, and I thought I was havin' a rough time of it. I don't have one thing to complain about. But YOU really have alot on your heart. You are grieving for what has happened to your DD , and for everything that's happening with your boyfriend. I am SO sorry you are going thru so much ! Pleaz be good to yourself . Bless your boots ! 
SSOOOOO very sory you're going through this!!!!!! my heart aches for you my son was molested 2 yrs ago its hard and i know exactly how you are feeling wish i had great words to give... Hope the s.o.b spends life behind bars!!!! Hpoe all gets better for you soon!!! BIG HUGS TO YOU
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- megansmom718
on Nov. 7, 2009 at 12:39 AM