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I don't normally do this, but I need to vent!!

Posted by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 2:29 AM
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 Seriously. Is it necessary to sit parked in your car, right outside of my window with your radio/bass BLARING.. I haven't complained about all of the people STOMPING up and down the stairs at all hours & the fact that every one of them thinks they need to use the door buzzer as a beat mixer,  the TWO hunting puppies that you got & the fact that they have rushed & pounced on my daughter TWICE. I don't complain about my daughter hearing all of your f-bombs & furniture throwing when you are fighting every other day. But really, it's 1 am. Have some common courtesy.

UGH! Vent over . . .


      


Posted by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 2:29 AM
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Sam_I_Am601
by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 2:31 AM

Sorry you have crappy neighbors! 



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fionnalady
by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 2:34 AM

I have that problem everyday where I live and most nights it doesnt stop till 4 am and the cops will not come out to our area unless someone has been shot or killed.

rach_jaco
by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 2:37 AM

Thanks, I cannot stand them. It's not like we live in the middle of a busy city. We live in the country, surrounded by a nursing home and senior housing. A very quiet neighboehood.

Quoting Sam_I_Am601:

Sorry you have crappy neighbors! 



      


babie113
by Platinum Member on Nov. 7, 2009 at 2:39 AM


Quoting Sam_I_Am601:

Sorry you have crappy neighbors! 


rach_jaco
by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 2:39 AM

Ugh, I feel bad for you! I would confront them but my husband is deployed right now and I am pregnant so not the best idea. I am going to call the landlord tomorrow.

Quoting fionnalady:

I have that problem everyday where I live and most nights it doesnt stop till 4 am and the cops will not come out to our area unless someone has been shot or killed.



      


NikiAnne
by Silver Member on Nov. 7, 2009 at 2:40 AM

Ugh, we have a guy in the neighborhood who always seems to have some place to go around 1 or 2 AM on a super loud motorcycle. For some reason he always has to sit and idle at the intersection right in front of our house too. So I understand your frustration!!

jdtink
by Member on Nov. 7, 2009 at 2:49 AM

Yea, so not great, huh?  Sorry for your situation and I can feel your frustration!  For the legitimate complaints, yes, I would let your landlord know w/documented dates and times and certain offenders!

Confronting certain types is tricky!  Yet, once in a while, reminding or letting them know may turn on a lightbulb that they were otherwise too wrapped up in their own drama to even attempt to think of others!  Not to stick up for them...just that sometimes pleasantly speaking to neighbors instead of "turning them in" may prove more faorable to you and that relationship,,,no?

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mstnbecki
by Platinum Member on Nov. 7, 2009 at 2:53 AM

Do you have a camcorder? I would turn it on so your landlord can hear what you have to go through all night. 

PrettiGirl
by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 2:55 AM

Have you filed a noise complaint on them? That's what I would do!

happy~*Crystal*~

rach_jaco
by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 9:24 AM

Under normal circumstances I would confront them but I just don't feel comfortable with them knowing it is me that has the problem, just in case. My husband is deployed so I am home alone right now, 7 months pregnant and I have a 2 1/2 year old.

Quoting jdtink:

Yea, so not great, huh?  Sorry for your situation and I can feel your frustration!  For the legitimate complaints, yes, I would let your landlord know w/documented dates and times and certain offenders!

Confronting certain types is tricky!  Yet, once in a while, reminding or letting them know may turn on a lightbulb that they were otherwise too wrapped up in their own drama to even attempt to think of others!  Not to stick up for them...just that sometimes pleasantly speaking to neighbors instead of "turning them in" may prove more faorable to you and that relationship,,,no?



      


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