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Married with a question.** edited**

Posted by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 11:41 PM
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Question: What kind of guy friends do you have?

Options:

One that is my Best Friend.

No guy friends/ SO's friends.

Some but would not consider them a best friend

other....please explain


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Ok so how many of you have a guy friend that you  consider a BEST FRIEND(besides Hubby/so)? I mean someone you tell EVERYTHING to!  Someone that you love. Just not the way you love your husband/SO.

 ** I guess I will add my answer. My husband has been this guys friend for years. I have also known this guy since I was 12 (known my hubby for the same amount of time)  We just recently got back in touch with him. He has changed soo much. He really is a great guy.  We text about everyday. I also have visited this guy twice. We just got out to eat and talk. Hubby knows( I tell hubby EVERYTHING) and felt a little jealous. (my hubby is away right now) I reassured him and now he is fine. I was just wanting to know you ladies' thoughts on this.  just curious.

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ang0708
by Silver Member on Nov. 7, 2009 at 11:43 PM

 Nope don't got any guy friends that I tell everything too that is what my dh is for. Once you get one of those unless he is gay your asking for trouble..believe me seen too many friends go wrong with there "best friend"

isra1986
by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 11:48 PM

I used to have a very good male friend before he got married :(
I didn't tell him everything, but he was my closest friend. DH was never threatened by him because he was my age, way too young for me, lol.

HungarianQueen
by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 11:48 PM

I have a guy BFF, Chanzo... He lives on the other side of the country so its not that big of deal... plus its COMPLETELY platonic. Ew.. Hes like my brother. Even so, I'd never go hang out with him w/out SO.

Iconoclast
by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 11:50 PM

Got rid of all my guy friends when I got with DH, mainly because they all wanted more if offered, ya know.

katieBennett
by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 11:50 PM

no i dont have any guy friends like that other than my husband he is my bestfriend and that is a lot to do with us getting married lol

reelo
by on Nov. 7, 2009 at 11:50 PM

Most of my guy friends are either friends with hubby first or husbands of friends, I do have some close friends who are guys and technically, my best friend is a guy (but I'm married to him so I'm not sure if that counts). 

 

   

lifeisajoy
by Gold Member on Nov. 7, 2009 at 11:51 PM

I have some friends that are guys and my hubby is cool with that  (I will go out to lunch for like work and stuff like that or my one good friend who is a Christian we exchange different books and stuff or will talk on the phone about different conferences coming up or some special show series coming up and my hubby is all cool with that or talk about 70's or Rock music) but my hubby is really the only guy I tell everything too and consider my best friend on the guy side I have ladies that are best friends but really I have never had guy best friends besides my hubby even before my hubby. 

Take Care

Brookes_Mommy
by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 12:14 AM

bumping..I edited!

babipeanut
by Bronze Member on Nov. 8, 2009 at 12:21 AM

My hubby teases me because MOST of my friends are guys -i just don't get along with women. Mostly because I am a tom boy still-I like sports, cars, action movies, etc... Most women we know are really girly and I can't stand that.

Some I had before our marriage some I've met since but they are just firends and hubby knows that.  It boils down to how much he trusts you and if they are honesly just friends. 

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