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Has this ever happened to anyone else?

goldenglow1984

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on Nov. 8, 2009 at 9:12 AM

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Well my husband and I were having sex and our 6 yr old son walked in on us. I don't really know what to tell him. He didn't see awhole lot because we took a blanket and covered up. David wants to get a lock for the bedroom door now. We had no idea that he was up, it was 7:30 this morning. I just feel weird about it.

Cassandra, wife to David, mom to Brianna, Jordan, Adrianna, Alexea and Jonathan.

Written by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 9:12 AM

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  • Bianca008
  • by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 9:14 AM
  • Get a lock ! I do not know anyone this has not happened to .

  • JulyBabies
  • by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 9:16 AM
  • I would use this opportunity to teach your son to knock before he enters a room, at 6 he is old enough to understand that.  Otherwise, I wouldn't address it any further.

  • AriMom922
  • by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 9:18 AM
  • It hasn't happened to me. But I know growing up that my step-sister did it to my parents. But she was like half asleep so they didn't have to say anything about it.

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    My Ariana...Sept.22.2008

  • ShawnaH2005
  • by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 9:18 AM
  • Yikes! Definitely time to get a lock for your door! We did the same thing because our son would always try to come in our room. As far as what to tell him take your cues from him. He might not even think anything is up. If he asks then I guess it is time to decided how much you think he is able to understand. We went with dad was tickling mommy because that is what he asked. Dad were you tickling mommy? DH: uummm, yes yes I was! DS: Do it again! She is really ticklish! I was horrifed but He left it at that!

  • goldenglow1984
  • by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 9:19 AM
  • That's what his dad told him, he said don't you know how to knock before entering a room? to him. And he said he was sorry and wouldn't do it again.

    Quoting JulyBabies:

    I would use this opportunity to teach your son to knock before he enters a room, at 6 he is old enough to understand that.  Otherwise, I wouldn't address it any further.


    Cassandra, wife to David, mom to Brianna, Jordan, Adrianna, Alexea and Jonathan.

  • PLATINUM_BEAUTY
  • by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 9:20 AM
  • Oh yeah.  Once in the livingroom.  Butt naked doing the reverse cowboy. I was "dancing" lol! Get a lock!  

  • CasandraFinlay
  • by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 9:20 AM
  • HA! This happened to us the other day (our son is 4); he saw nothing (blankets etc).

    We HAVE a lock, and it WAS locked... the kid figured it out and used a key to turn the dial-thingy (safety feature... in case someone is accidentally locked in the room).

    Needless to say, hubby is going to install something better.



  • CasandraFinlay
  • by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 9:21 AM
  • HA! That sounded familiar, but I wasn't sure... I googled HAHAHAHAHA!!!

    Quoting PLATINUM_BEAUTY:

    Oh yeah.  Once in the livingroom.  Butt naked doing the reverse cowboy. I was "dancing" lol! Get a lock!  


  • goldenglow1984
  • by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 9:21 AM
  • He doesn't seem to think anything was up. He hasn't asked anything else and this was almost 2 hours ago that it happened. I'm kind of hoping I don't have to explain anything to him at least not right now.

    Quoting ShawnaH2005:

    Yikes! Definitely time to get a lock for your door! We did the same thing because our son would always try to come in our room. As far as what to tell him take your cues from him. He might not even think anything is up. If he asks then I guess it is time to decided how much you think he is able to understand. We went with dad was tickling mommy because that is what he asked. Dad were you tickling mommy? DH: uummm, yes yes I was! DS: Do it again! She is really ticklish! I was horrifed but He left it at that!


    Cassandra, wife to David, mom to Brianna, Jordan, Adrianna, Alexea and Jonathan.

  • goldenglow1984
  • by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 9:23 AM
  • lol we were both butt naked. He was on top and I was on the bottom. David goes oh shit whos at the door lmao.

    Cassandra, wife to David, mom to Brianna, Jordan, Adrianna, Alexea and Jonathan.

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