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Took my kids to visit their brothers grave

Posted by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 3:03 PM
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and it went well...we had a good conversation about him and why he isnt with us. It was good to see how much my 5 and 3 year old understand. I just wish they could have had the chance to meet their baby brother...we have to wait for the ground to settle before we can put his headstone in, it should be in the begining of spring or summer.

 

 







Our twin identical boys were born August 24, 2009. Leeland Matthew was born at 6:54pm weighing 1lb, 6 oz. He fought for his life for 5 hours, but was too little to keep fighting. He passed away at 11:59pm the same night he was born. Landyn was born at 6:55pm weighing 1lb 11oz. He is fighting for his life in the NICU. He is a strong little baby and is doing very well.







This picture was taken by the NICU staff after Leeland passed away. Leeland is in the back and Landyn in the front.




 




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loves_her_baby
by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 3:06 PM

thats heartbeaking =/ im so sorry for your loss.

gabe11-14
by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 3:08 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss.




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laurenmason
by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 3:09 PM

my heart goes out to you and your boys.  thank you for posting these beautiful photos.

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tretresmom
by Aimee on Nov. 8, 2009 at 3:09 PM


Quoting loves_her_baby:

thats heartbeaking =/ im so sorry for your loss.


poppysgirl3
by Silver Member on Nov. 8, 2009 at 3:10 PM

I read your post all the time and i just wanted to take a moment to commend you....You are soooo strong and someone i look up to even though i've never met you! thank you for being awsome!

aav1125
by Bronze Member on Nov. 8, 2009 at 3:10 PM

 I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm glad you are sharing Leeland's memory with his brothers! My prayers and thoughts are with you.

kat247
by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 3:10 PM
I am very sorry for your loss.I cant imagine your pain your going thru.
KokoJones
by Gold Member on Nov. 8, 2009 at 3:12 PM

:( **hug** i am so sorry for your loss, hun, i am glad the boys were able to understand what is going on

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mom_2_3crzyboys
by Silver Member on Nov. 8, 2009 at 3:12 PM

thank you ladies, its so amazing the support and friends i have gained from cafemom, i love you all!







Our twin identical boys were born August 24, 2009. Leeland Matthew was born at 6:54pm weighing 1lb, 6 oz. He fought for his life for 5 hours, but was too little to keep fighting. He passed away at 11:59pm the same night he was born. Landyn was born at 6:55pm weighing 1lb 11oz. He is fighting for his life in the NICU. He is a strong little baby and is doing very well.







This picture was taken by the NICU staff after Leeland passed away. Leeland is in the back and Landyn in the front.




 




retsillacam
by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 3:13 PM

I'm sorry for you loss.


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