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Do you ever notice with the picture posts that there always has to be someone in there telling all the pretty girls to stop flaunting it? I do.
It's almost like we can't just simply have a nice post on here where we compliment each other without someone f**king it up, ya know?
I don't know what the deal is....can someone tell me?
I mean, I don't consider myself to be super hot or anything...but I don't resent the "pretty girls."
IMO, that is just lame. I mean, are you really going to hate someone for their looks?
Maybe I just don't get it, maybe it's a self esteem thing....can someone explain it to me?
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i ignore those posts. i don't give a shit what anyone looks like, they still probably suck.
No I can't explain it.My guess the posters that make shit comments have little or no self esteem?
Surround yourself with people that add to your life not subtract from it.
A lot of people here like to start drama, and like to be mean just for the fun of it. It's pretty lame and juvenile.
I would say it's lack of self esteem and lack of self confidence. If those are low, people are likely to lash out at those who have higher self esteem/confidence.


Ok, dont think that was what OP was looking for
Quoting sophistcatdfury:
i ignore those posts. i don't give a shit what anyone looks like, they still probably suck.
People feel the need to put others down to make themselves feel better. I experienced this yesterday actually. I was at the store and a couple heavy women walked past me making remarks about my size. Well geez, thanks for judging me based on my size. If I would have walked past them making remarks on how heavy they are I would have been called the biggest bitch in the world.
The only time I get annoyed is when they're like "Oh, Idk.... I'm not that pretty" and then they post a picture of themselves and in the pic you can tell they think they're hot. lol I still don't say anything though.
well neither was that, but it still bumped the post.
Quoting shajdinyak:Ok, dont think that was what OP was looking for
Quoting sophistcatdfury:
i ignore those posts. i don't give a shit what anyone looks like, they still probably suck.
I dont have a prob with them posting their own pic and saying Im pretty, but I think its stupid to come on here knowing damn well they are pretty and ACTING like they dont!!!! I also think its very high school!!! So what they are pretty, Oh but I think Im so ugly, boo hoo, AHHH,
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