So my fiance stayed the night with me last night and after he went to sleep I checked his phone. And there was nothing much to look at. But something that bothered me was his ex g/f sent him a text that said hey baby. But he just responded hey. There were texts before that but they were about HER son (NOT HIS) because he has/had h1n1 and was really sick. So we both have asked her how he's doing trying to be nice.
What should I do? What should I think? I mean all the texts were pretty casual but that one is driving me nuts! I have yet to ask him about it, because I really don't want to fight. I am due any day now and I just don't want to deal with that type of shit right now. I mean most of his anwsers were one word. Like the longest one was him saying "Is josh feeling any better?". Its driving me nuts...
I know he isn't gonna be cheating with her because he is moving to KY tonight cuz he got a job down there making decent money (hes moving first to get a place and so I can still have the baby here). Really what would you think or do?
edit: his phone is in my name..and we both look at eachothers phones whenever..he knows I looked at it.
I'm no help because I think that you shouldn't have been snooping on his phone.
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I wouldn't really worry about it. Its probably just the pregnancy hormones driving you crazy lol. I know that I already freak out about little things that I wouldn't if I wasn't pregnant
I wouldn't do or say anything. It sounds like at most maybe she's interested but he is blowing her off. If he was interested in pursuing anything with her it would be more than just one-word replys to her, and he's moving away from her anyway. I would let it go unless anything else comes up to make you suspicious.
I just have to say: don't go looking for stuff unless you are prepared for what you find. But it seems to me he has no interest in the woman but friendship.
Exactly.
Quoting AutymsMommy:
I'm no help because I think that you shouldn't have been snooping on his phone.
his phones in my name and i'll snoop in it if i want too...plus we both look at eachothers phones..I haven't checked his in a long time I was just bored and couldnt sleep last night.
best thing to do is admit to yourself you were wrong, suck it up and get over it.
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