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spooky?????

Posted by on Nov. 9, 2009 at 9:19 AM
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Ok so in July I lost a really good friend of mine n a car accident.  The last week weird things have been happening.  My radio turned on by itslef at work, I have been feeling like someone is watchng me at home and just getting crazy vibes, then yesterday I was laying down trying to catch a nap and my phone went off, well it was a text from his number and it was a picture but it wouldnt let me open it.  I know i sound crazy but i am really not..lol I never believed in anything like this before and really didnt until yesterday when i got the text.  Has anyone else ever experienced this and if so what did you do?  My grandmother says i need to go to his grave and talk to him maybe he is trying to tell me something but IDK!!!!

Any ideas?

Posted by on Nov. 9, 2009 at 9:19 AM
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Just_Bethy
by on Nov. 9, 2009 at 9:22 AM

You should NOT try to contact him yourself...find a medium and go through her..... Blessed Be...

 


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betsyabel
by Silver Member on Nov. 9, 2009 at 9:30 AM

This gave me goosebumps!  I've had a few experiences like this shortly after people have died.  I usually just acknowledge them, something like "Hey mom" or "love you too".  It's been said by many that people who have passed can "communicate" through electronics and such.  I was staying in my mom's house for a few days after she died and lights would flicker once or twice when we were standing near them.  When my son was packing her books from her bookshelf in the bedroom some things on her bedside table fell and nobody was anywhere near them.  He is like me and just said, "hey grandma, thanks for scaring the hell outta me". lol

blessedgk00
by on Nov. 9, 2009 at 9:35 AM

hmmm, i am not  sure I want to contact him at all..   :

blessedgk00
by on Nov. 9, 2009 at 9:37 AM

It's so crazy because i feel like im the one that is crazy if I tell anyone..lol Ive not had anything with the lights happen just my phone and the radio.  It makes me sad but at the same time its like I feel he doesnt want us to forget about him( idk how we could)..lol

Quoting betsyabel:

This gave me goosebumps!  I've had a few experiences like this shortly after people have died.  I usually just acknowledge them, something like "Hey mom" or "love you too".  It's been said by many that people who have passed can "communicate" through electronics and such.  I was staying in my mom's house for a few days after she died and lights would flicker once or twice when we were standing near them.  When my son was packing her books from her bookshelf in the bedroom some things on her bedside table fell and nobody was anywhere near them.  He is like me and just said, "hey grandma, thanks for scaring the hell outta me". lol


betsyabel
by Silver Member on Nov. 9, 2009 at 9:41 AM

I know what you mean...when I tell some people about it I always have to preface it with "Now, don't think I'm crazy but..."  There are many stories out there of people getting calls from a deceased person's phone number & there being nobody there.  You aren't crazy, and I'm pretty sure he's just letting you know that he's watching over you.  It's cool, in a freaky kind of way.

stpalmsgirl
by on Nov. 9, 2009 at 9:45 AM

OK that would totally freak me out but first, have you tried to call the number back and see if someone might has his phone or his number was given to someone else?

blessedgk00
by on Nov. 9, 2009 at 9:47 AM

Yea, thats the first thing I did and noone has it so that makes it even more wierd... i talk to his sister about it too.

Quoting stpalmsgirl:

OK that would totally freak me out but first, have you tried to call the number back and see if someone might has his phone or his number was given to someone else?


Aislinn
by Ruby Member on Nov. 9, 2009 at 9:50 AM

 I had weird experiences after my best friend passed. The one that really made me pay attention (lol) was my drive home from work a year after he died. My best friend was very sick. Sick of being sick, as he would say. He just wanted to be "free" of the pain. Anyway, a year later at 4 pm (his time of death) the song "Free" by Phish came on the radio. One, this station was a alternative rock station that never played Phish. Two, our last concert together was a big Phish show in Northern Maine and three, it was "Free". I know, in my heart, it was him telling me he was OK. I have no ideas for you, but if you want to talk to him, you do not have to go to his grave... Good luck, Mama. I have to go find a tissue  now... lol

BuggersMom05
by on Nov. 9, 2009 at 9:52 AM

I use to always have problems calling my boyfriend from a previous work place.  I would go out to my car on break and dial his number and I would always get this old lady instead.  I would check my phone and it would say his number...and every where else in the world I would get him on the other end. 

She would always just talk and talk and wouldn't acknowledge me at all.  It was weird..but not like your story.  I think I would pee my pants...lol.


blessedgk00
by on Nov. 9, 2009 at 9:55 AM

Wow gave me chills and brought a tear to my eye..  Its so crazy how things just happen.  That is a great story and wow !!!

Quoting Aislinn:

 I had weird experiences after my best friend passed. The one that really made me pay attention (lol) was my drive home from work a year after he died. My best friend was very sick. Sick of being sick, as he would say. He just wanted to be "free" of the pain. Anyway, a year later at 4 pm (his time of death) the song "Free" by Phish came on the radio. One, this station was a alternative rock station that never played Phish. Two, our last concert together was a big Phish show in Northern Maine and three, it was "Free". I know, in my heart, it was him telling me he was OK. I have no ideas for you, but if you want to talk to him, you do not have to go to his grave... Good luck, Mama. I have to go find a tissue  now... lol


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