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New update: Another update....BIG UPDATE!!! Oh Please no.... Added Info! Update at reply #23

Posted by on Nov. 19, 2009 at 12:27 AM
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ok just found out i was prego a couple weeks ago after getting hit by car... well... I was suppose to have an U/S last week... well the tech was sick so we rescheduled it and this morning I woke up to me bleeding... its not a lot Not even enough to need a pad or anything.. but enough that when I go wipe after 1 hr the TP is covered in blood.... I called the Doc and he just told me to wait and see what happens.... THIS CAN NOT BE HAPPENING!!!! I just miscarried at the begining of Sept... I don't think I can handle this.... could it be anything else??? Please give me some hope... my U/S isn't for a couple more weeks...

 

Added info... Im NOT Cramping or feeling horrible as I have in the past during a MC....

THE BIG UPDATE!!! I just went to the bathroom and There was NO Blood... Its been 2 hrs since I went to the bathroom last.... Hopefully this is a good sign... I will keep everyone updated as I go!!! Thank you ladies again for all ur support!!!

ANOTHER UPDATE... Doc called and said they have an opening for a U/S tomorrow... at... 3:30.... I'll let everyone know how it goes!!

New and LAST Update... There was NO heartbeat and Im suppose to be 7-8 weeks... So its only a matter of time... Im not going to be on for a few days... just wanted to u all know... If I don't Misscarry by next weekend I may end up getting a DNC... Thanks for the support.

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MomOf2AmaznKids
by on Nov. 19, 2009 at 12:29 AM

 Im sorry, I dont know what it could be. I hope youre not miscarrying, tho. heres a bump for you tho. I hope someone can help you. =0)

hisbabybat
by on Nov. 19, 2009 at 12:30 AM

 Oh sweetie :( I am so sorry about your past miscarriage. I'm not totally sure what to tell you here, I've known a handful of people who had bleeding and it was just a false alarm, you know? I would just do my best to relax as much as possible, I know it's incredibly hard, but stressing out isn't good for you or your baby. Also I would see about talking to another doctor, if you're worried, your doctor shouldn't push you to wait when he could at least see you. you know?

Best of luck hun, keep us updated!

rosa_lee
by on Nov. 19, 2009 at 12:31 AM

 I remember that post. That was an awesome thing you did for that kid. I don't really know what to say though other than try to stay calm and keep yourself as stressfree as possible. Stupid I know that wont be easy but you will be in my thoughts and I will send some good vibes your way. Please keep us updated

abstractmommy
by Killer Potatoes on Nov. 19, 2009 at 12:31 AM

I would just go to the ER NOW....! Good luck momma.

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mommaboudreaux
by Gold Member on Nov. 19, 2009 at 12:32 AM

When I was pregnant I bled twice in the first trimester.  Scared the HELL out of me!!  It turned out fine though.  If I were you though I would just go to the ER now to be absolutely sure.


JasonsMom2007
by on Nov. 19, 2009 at 12:33 AM

Oh no!  I didn't make the connection until now.  That was such a great thing she did for that kid.  To the OP I really hope it's not a miscarriage.  I'll be praying.  Keep us updated!

Quoting rosa_lee:

 I remember that post. That was an awesome thing you did for that kid. I don't really know what to say though other than try to stay calm and keep yourself as stressfree as possible. Stupid I know that wont be easy but you will be in my thoughts and I will send some good vibes your way. Please keep us updated


 














MomTo2Boys2526
by on Nov. 19, 2009 at 12:34 AM
First off, go to the e.r. And hopefully they can determine if its a miscarriage or not..I had this same problem (minus the car crash) and I went to the e.r. And my baby was fine, so it was a threatened miscarriage and I was put on bedrest for 2 weeks! And I'm sorry about your other loses! Hugs momma













apeclark2008
by on Nov. 19, 2009 at 12:34 AM

well Now im scared to death to GET the U/S coz I don't think I could handle seeing the baby right now and knowing Im going to lose it... Im just keep saying over and over again that everything will be fine... But Im NOT cramping or anything just bright red blood...

Quoting mommaboudreaux:

When I was pregnant I bled twice in the first trimester.  Scared the HELL out of me!!  It turned out fine though.  If I were you though I would just go to the ER now to be absolutely sure.


junebug624
by on Nov. 19, 2009 at 12:36 AM

when this happened to me with my son, I went to the emergency room (didnt wanna wait for the doc) and they found in the u/s that at 10 wks the placenta had started to detach from my uterus.  at 14 wks i was put on modified bedrest because it happened again.  The doc told me to try and stay off my feet and see what happens.  My son is now 17 months old.  If you're too early they cant do anything for you... once you're far enough along they can though... Im sorry hun, I hope the little one in there hangs on.. My thoughts are with you... Ive had two m/c and I know what it is like to lose apart of you.

 


I'm a vaxing, circing, disposable diaper using, bf switched to ff, CIO sometimes, pushed 1hr before a c-section (and don't regret it), college graduate, loving my son, can't wait to have another baby, trust your own judgement, kind of mom.

junebug624
by on Nov. 19, 2009 at 12:39 AM

I should add that i was having slight cramping and i felt the bleeding and thought i had peed myself... so it may have been a little more than what you're having.  I had 1 mc before my son and 1 after my son.  When I was prego w/my son I bled once/month for 2 months... and it had been nothing, until the 10 wk mark

Quoting junebug624:

when this happened to me with my son, I went to the emergency room (didnt wanna wait for the doc) and they found in the u/s that at 10 wks the placenta had started to detach from my uterus.  at 14 wks i was put on modified bedrest because it happened again.  The doc told me to try and stay off my feet and see what happens.  My son is now 17 months old.  If you're too early they cant do anything for you... once you're far enough along they can though... Im sorry hun, I hope the little one in there hangs on.. My thoughts are with you... Ive had two m/c and I know what it is like to lose apart of you.


 


I'm a vaxing, circing, disposable diaper using, bf switched to ff, CIO sometimes, pushed 1hr before a c-section (and don't regret it), college graduate, loving my son, can't wait to have another baby, trust your own judgement, kind of mom.

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