why can't people just take responsibility for their actions?
It drives me nuts that some people blame the wrong people when something goes wrong in their lives.
Your husband cheats you blame the woman - blame him he is the one that you have a commitment with.
Your child's father doesn't pay child support or visit - you should really get to know someone before you become a parent with them.
The list goes on and on....what do you want people to take responsibility for?