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Me and my bestie workin on her homework...

Posted by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:33 PM
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Ok one of my closest friends and i are working on her homework, and one question is 'Why do you believe divorce rates have risen exponentially in the last three decades?' Now she and i have come up with various reasons, but how would you answer this question?


Posted by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:33 PM
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lillitigator88
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:34 PM

Divorce is more acceptable now you are not shunned for having a failed marriage. The stigma attached with being married 2,34, or even 5 times is not as prevalent anymore. :)

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mysteriousmom06
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:35 PM

Well one definite reason is the attitude toward divorce has changed tremendously. What use to be taboo & looked at as a failure, is now widely acceptable.

southernjess3
by Jessie on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:35 PM

because wives no longer let their husbands mistreat them. the respect for women in this world has risen and its gotten much easier for a woman to survive on their own. women arent sitting back as much and letting their husbands control them

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missamanda86
by Ruby Member on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:36 PM

SOOO true...we so didnt even think of that loL!

Quoting lillitigator88:

Divorce is more acceptable now you are not shunned for having a failed marriage. The stigma attached with being married 2,34, or even 5 times is not as prevalent anymore. :)



heavenlyangl420
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:37 PM


Quoting lillitigator88:

Divorce is more acceptable now you are not shunned for having a failed marriage. The stigma attached with being married 2,34, or even 5 times is not as prevalent anymore. :)


i agree

missamanda86
by Ruby Member on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:39 PM

Also very true!

Quoting southernjess3:

because wives no longer let their husbands mistreat them. the respect for women in this world has risen and its gotten much easier for a woman to survive on their own. women arent sitting back as much and letting their husbands control them



sarah12087
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:39 PM

 well i would have to bring up the money situation.  Couples always stress about money therefore it leads to working harder, being worn out, and innevitably being irritable and cranky so fighting is definitely going to happen more often.. all the fights over time begin to add up

missamanda86
by Ruby Member on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:40 PM

Thats a good point, although my husband and i have next to no money, and it doesnt bother us...that could be because we never had any growing up either...or the fact that its not that 'important' to us...

Quoting sarah12087:

 well i would have to bring up the money situation.  Couples always stress about money therefore it leads to working harder, being worn out, and innevitably being irritable and cranky so fighting is definitely going to happen more often.. all the fights over time begin to add up



vatofamily
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:41 PM

I believe there are lots of reasons.  One being that women are given so many more opportunities now.  You can do what you want to do as a woman---making you much less reliant on a man.  Back in the day, you had to rely on a man.  Second being, it is the norm now to get divorce---it doesn't put you to shame. [Which is a shame....]  If something doesn't work out, just end it.  Third would be that men don't know what they want anymore---used to be all women were mostly the same.  They got married, pregnant, and raised kids.  Now there are options for men---independent women, needy women, co-dependent women, etc...

missamanda86
by Ruby Member on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:42 PM

I agree...it used to be more simple lol!

Quoting vatofamily:

I believe there are lots of reasons.  One being that women are given so many more opportunities now.  You can do what you want to do as a woman---making you much less reliant on a man.  Back in the day, you had to rely on a man.  Second being, it is the norm now to get divorce---it doesn't put you to shame. [Which is a shame....]  If something doesn't work out, just end it.  Third would be that men don't know what they want anymore---used to be all women were mostly the same.  They got married, pregnant, and raised kids.  Now there are options for men---independent women, needy women, co-dependent women, etc...



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