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Topic - Guys that are living w/their girlfriends or are in Monogamous relationships but are not Married , are they fair game? Is it okay to have sex with these men? Is this the same "No brainer" that getting involved with a married guy would be.
I think it's different but I'll reserve opinion for a bit.
same deal as married men. sure, you have no responsibility to the girlfriend, but you do need to respect yourself enough to not accept sloppy seconds. if a guy really likes you or "loves" you, he will not make you be the other woman.
No it's not ok. Stay away from my man. Some people don't see marriage as the way. But IMO if you are seeing someone and only that one person, then you would be breaking them up. If a guy is with a girl and doesn't leave them for you and cheats on them with you. Just the same. A cheater is a cheater. A whore is a whore!
no cheating is cheating in my opininion. Committement should matter, otherwise it is dating. If they have committed to live with someoneand be a couple, it is cheating and it isn't okay.

IMO no one (man or woman) should get involved with someone who is married or dating.
Have more respect for yourself!!
Um, well, if they're truly monogamous....its not an issue.
Otherwise, they're not being monogamous and this question is an oxymoron.
1 archaic : the practice of marrying only once during a lifetime
2 : the state or custom of being married to one person at a time
3 : the condition or practice of having a single mate during a period of time
- mo·nog·a·mous \mə-ˈnä-gə-məs\ also mono·gam·ic \ˌmä-nə-ˈga-mik\ adjective
- mo·nog·a·mous·ly adverb
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