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(Spin Off from sex w/married men) Sex with guys in monogamous relationships..

Posted by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:47 PM
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  Topic - Guys that are living w/their girlfriends or are in Monogamous relationships but are not Married , are they fair game?  Is it okay to have sex with these men?  Is this the same "No brainer" that getting involved with a married guy would be.

   I think it's different but I'll reserve opinion for a bit.  

Posted by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:47 PM
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AJmum
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:48 PM

Umm no. And it really makes me sad so many women think it's ok.

nemiller
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:48 PM

same deal as married men.  sure, you have no responsibility to the girlfriend, but you do need to respect yourself enough to not accept sloppy seconds.  if a guy really likes you or "loves" you, he will not make you be the other woman.

randmmom05
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:49 PM

That wouldnt make them monogamous now would it lol

mommyziegler
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:49 PM

again NO!

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allurasmamma
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:50 PM

  No it's not ok. Stay away from my man. Some people don't see marriage as the way. But IMO if you are seeing someone and only that one person, then you would be breaking them up. If a guy is with a girl and doesn't leave them for you and cheats on them with you. Just the same. A cheater is a cheater. A whore is a whore!

Thelmama
by Ruby Member on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:50 PM

no cheating is cheating in my opininion.  Committement should matter, otherwise it is dating.  If they have committed to live with someoneand be a couple, it is cheating and it isn't okay. 

MaeHamMomma
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:50 PM

 IMO no one (man or woman) should get involved with someone who is married or dating.

Have more respect for yourself!!

mommiecharlie
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:50 PM

Fair game bitches!!!

jenanddakidtoo
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:51 PM

Um, well, if they're truly monogamous....its not an issue. 

Otherwise, they're not being monogamous and this question is an oxymoron.

allurasmamma
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 7:53 PM

 

Main Entry: mo·nog·a·my
Pronunciation: \-mē\
Function: noun
Etymology: French monogamie, from Late Latin monogamia, from Greek, from monogamos monogamous, from mon- + gamos marriage, from gamein to marry
Date: 1612

1 archaic : the practice of marrying only once during a lifetime
2 : the state or custom of being married to one person at a time
3 : the condition or practice of having a single mate during a period of time

- mo·nog·a·mous \mə-ˈnä-gə-məs\ also mono·gam·ic \ˌmä-nə-ˈga-mik\ adjective

- mo·nog·a·mous·ly adverb

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