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Ever have to?

Posted by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 10:06 PM
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have you ever had to kick a family member out of your house for an extended period?

If so, why?

If not, what would be a reason for it?


by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 10:06 PM
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Not.So.Virginal
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 10:19 PM

For those who dont know me from another group where I've mentioned this.... my sister is not allowed in my house. I know she smokes pot, but I think she's moved on to something more serious.

She came in with a bag of clothes and announced to me that she had to do laundry. OK, whatever, I told her the laundromat's down the street. She laughs, and then walks into my basement to do her laundry. Then she goes to the bathroom and comes out saying "I stole some of your tampons, I don't have any" and then asks for a soda. About an hour later, she asks to split another soda with my mom and my mom immediately piped up with "i dont want any more" so I told her no.

She goes into the bathroom again and then comes out, looks at me and says "well, how does it look?" and blinks fast for a few seconds... Yeah, she opened my brand new eye liner and helped herself. it has since been thrown out because I dont share eye makeup and she knows this.

We went with my mom to dinner, which my brother offered to pay for. My sister sat on her phone with her boyfriend or her husband the entire time, either yelling into the phone, or texting. (She has a husband, which she is going to divorce, and then a guy she's living with). She was also trying to take pictures of my brother (he's very overweight) so she could show her friends just how fat she is. The entire way to the casino, she screamed into her phone at people and threatened to hit my mom when my mom tried to turn her phone off.She also told her boyfriend that their clothes would smell good because she helped herself to my laundry sheets and fabric softener.

At the casino I ended up winning and she kept touching the screen (i do the nickel machines) and telling me that she was good luck... yeah, the girl who never wins is great luck. And then she repeatedly called me a bitch because I won and she lost, and we had went up there for her birthday (which is tomorrow). After she got home, she called me to call me a bitch a few more times because she stole the wrong lollipops from my husband's box of lollipops. He has those because he's quitting smoking and they help when he needs something in his mouth.

So yeah, he heard all of that and said that she is no longer allowed in our house. That if my mom wants to hang out with me and her, she has to pick me up first and then go get my sister.


SLGross215
by Sarah on Nov. 20, 2009 at 10:22 PM

My mother is not allowed in my home EVER. She is a drunk and a violent one at that. She is not allowed around my family and if she shows up here she'll find her sorry drunk ass in jail for DUI because I will call the police on her for driving.

 

 

 

 

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tashibaby
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 10:26 PM

I never had to do that but if one of my in laws or my sisters acted like that i probably would

Quoting Not.So.Virginal:


ErikaM27
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 10:30 PM

My mil over 5 yrs ago I was pregnant,I had a miscarriage she was there by my side the whole time. About 2 months later I bought my first house and my sil's came over to spend the night they were 7 and 13 and the older one told me that her mom had told both of them that god had punished me and my dh because we didn't help her out with money which was why we lost our baby.

I confronted her over the phone minutes later and sure enough she said she had said that to her girls to teach them a lesson that they should help her out with money when they get older basically using us as an example. I told her she was no longer welcomed in my home I didn't want 2 faced people like that in my life and I haven't seen or spoken to her in over 5 yrs. I don't regret it at all. She's an evil woman my dh doesn't talk to her either for many many reasons.

Not.So.Virginal
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 10:35 PM

that's messed up

who tells children that somebody else losing a baby was their own fault because they essentially didnt pay her bills? Maybe she should have gotten a better job or something, because God is punishing her for being a dumb ass

Quoting ErikaM27:

My mil over 5 yrs ago I was pregnant,I had a miscarriage she was there by my side the whole time. About 2 months later I bought my first house and my sil's came over to spend the night they were 7 and 13 and the older one told me that her mom had told both of them that god had punished me and my dh because we didn't help her out with money which was why we lost our baby.

I confronted her over the phone minutes later and sure enough she said she had said that to her girls to teach them a lesson that they should help her out with money when they get older basically using us as an example. I told her she was no longer welcomed in my home I didn't want 2 faced people like that in my life and I haven't seen or spoken to her in over 5 yrs. I don't regret it at all. She's an evil woman my dh doesn't talk to her either for many many reasons.



matheson7
by Susan on Nov. 20, 2009 at 10:43 PM

My cousin is never allowed in my house, hell I don't even want her anywhere around me. She's the biggest thief ever, she stole half my bottle of pain pills the day I got them, and I had just had major back surgery, I mean an 8 hour operation.  She also stole medicine from her neighbor who is dying from cancer, I thought that was even worse. She steals all the time, I can't believe she's still walking around free. I don't blame you at all about your sister, what a piece of work.

Matheson7

ErikaM27
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 10:44 PM


Quoting Not.So.Virginal:

that's messed up

who tells children that somebody else losing a baby was their own fault because they essentially didnt pay her bills? Maybe she should have gotten a better job or something, because God is punishing her for being a dumb ass

Quoting ErikaM27:

My mil over 5 yrs ago I was pregnant,I had a miscarriage she was there by my side the whole time. About 2 months later I bought my first house and my sil's came over to spend the night they were 7 and 13 and the older one told me that her mom had told both of them that god had punished me and my dh because we didn't help her out with money which was why we lost our baby.

I confronted her over the phone minutes later and sure enough she said she had said that to her girls to teach them a lesson that they should help her out with money when they get older basically using us as an example. I told her she was no longer welcomed in my home I didn't want 2 faced people like that in my life and I haven't seen or spoken to her in over 5 yrs. I don't regret it at all. She's an evil woman my dh doesn't talk to her either for many many reasons.

 

yup 2 kids later and she's not around them so I guess tough luck for her. I don't care what happens to the woman. She's nothing to me.

NorCalMom2
by Member on Nov. 20, 2009 at 10:50 PM

One of my BIL is not allowed in my house under any circumstance!  He convienced my hubby to go behind my back an co-sign in a brand new fully loaded Lancer.  My dh wanted to talk to me about.  My BIL only made one payment.  He never called to say he couldn't make the payments so the account went past due and almost went to the credit bureau (I mean, if it had gone unpaid 1 more day it would have).  He didn't have insurance and totaled the car (damn near ripped the door off).  Registration was suspended.  Then, he refused to give us the car.  We had to drive 300 miles to get it... and it still took us 2 days to find him and the car.  And, just recently we received a parking ticket in the mail.  Which he refused to pay saying, "you took the car dude.  It's your problem". I haven't seen or heard from him in 2.5 years!  And I hope I never do. 

Did I mention he was a Marine, but went MIA for months!  And he's been arrested multiple times!

Quoting Not.So.Virginal:

have you ever had to kick a family member out of your house for an extended period?

If so, why?

If not, what would be a reason for it?


Not.So.Virginal
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 10:50 PM

im surprised my sister didnt steal my old meds.... i had my wisdom teeth out in feb and i still have the hydrocodone (like 2 of them) and like 1 1/2 dozen ibuprophen 800..... i will throw them out when they expire, but the husband and i agree that we keep them until then just in case i get stricken with horrible pain.

my sister's a piece of work. She also borrwed a car from somebody who borrowed it, and then left it on the side of the road when it broke down. The cops called the owner and he said he almost reported it stolen because he let a friend borrow it for a day and it had been about a week. She also tried to sell that car to my brother (who has a record) and tried to sell him a GPS for $10 (which the husband said sounds like crack or meth if she would indeed use it on drugs)

Quoting matheson7:

My cousin is never allowed in my house, hell I don't even want her anywhere around me. She's the biggest thief ever, she stole half my bottle of pain pills the day I got them, and I had just had major back surgery, I mean an 8 hour operation.  She also stole medicine from her neighbor who is dying from cancer, I thought that was even worse. She steals all the time, I can't believe she's still walking around free. I don't blame you at all about your sister, what a piece of work.



Not.So.Virginal
by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 10:52 PM

i hate people like that

Quoting NorCalMom2:


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