Ask Him To Marry Me???

[HeatherM0529]

Is it weird for me to ask HIM to marry me? And is it weird for me to propose with a ring? I want to get him a band and propose to him that way. Is that weird?

 Even if he says no he can wear it on his right hand!

I understand he wouldn't wear it as like an engagement ring or whatever... I just want to show him I'm serious about it and he doens't have to put it on until the wedding day. Or even wear it on his right hand until the wedding day! It's up to him!

I deleted the Rings because Titanium can't be sized smaller!!! I want something that can be sized both ways. So I think I'll just do sterling or white gold, But now my prices are higher!

Sterling Silver and $30 on Amazon!! They have a size chart right there. So I'll use that Determine his size and order it. THEN if it doesn't fit it can EASILY be sized!! It's an 8MM

[PLATINUM_BEAUTY]

I'm very traditional in this.  I think a man should pursue and propose personally, but good luck if you do :) 

[LeilaBeansMom]

I don't think that there is a right or wrong way to do this.  I think that it is a lovely gesture, that comes from your heart, and that is what matters.  So if it feels right to YOU, then do it! Good Luck!  I really like the 2nd ring, btw!

[kiralyn]

Quoting PLATINUM_BEAUTY:

I'm very traditional in this.  I think a man should pursue and propose personally, but good luck if you do :) 

[HeatherM0529]

Quoting LeilaBeansMom:

I don't think that there is a right or wrong way to do this.  I think that it is a lovely gesture, that comes from your heart, and that is what matters.  So if it feels right to YOU, then do it! Good Luck!  I really like the 2nd ring, btw!

Thank you! I'd have to see them in person, but so far I'm liking that one as well!!!

I want to do it on Christmas since It's creeping up fast on us here, but Don't even know his ring size... Maybe I'll wait til Valentine's day!

I think I'm going to wrap it (In a big box) and just give a little speech as he's opening it up, Don't want to go crazy and see what he thinks!!! I'm nervous!

[abbysmommy429]

I'm usually not very traditional, but in this case, I am very traditional. I would wait until he proposes to you. But, do what makes you feel happy and what feels right!  Good luck.

[ErikaM27]

I asked my husband and until a couple months ago I didn't know he loved that I did . He bragged to his friends and coworkers. I would have loved that he would have done it but being that he procrastinates we probably wouldnt be married right now lol

[YesNoMaybe]

My hubby has Titanium and it is scratched but he works with it on and he does a lot with his hands for work.

It's a little weird for me but I guess on certain things I am old fashion.

 

Quoting HeatherM0529:

Is it weird for me to ask HIM to marry me? And is it weird for me to propose with a ring? I want to get him a band and propose to him that way. Is that weird?

I'm thinking this ring right here from Kay jewelers.
I like White Gold, and this is Titanium. Close enough but it's IMPOSSIBLE to scratch or Get bent. It will last a while. and it's $130... Even if he says no he can wear it on his right hand!

I also like this one which is only $100

I understand he wouldn't wear it as like an engagement ring or whatever... I just want to show him I'm serious about it and he doens't have to put it on until the wedding day. Or even wear it on his right hand until the wedding day! It's up to him!

[maxensmom]

HAVE YOU TWO TALKED ABOUT MARRIAGE BEFORE? I THINK IT'S A LITTLE WEIRD, BUT NOT RIDICULOUS... 

[HeatherM0529]

Quoting maxensmom:

HAVE YOU TWO TALKED ABOUT MARRIAGE BEFORE? I THINK IT'S A LITTLE WEIRD, BUT NOT RIDICULOUS... 

Yes we have. and We've been together 3 1/2 years now!

[HeatherM0529]

Quoting ErikaM27:

I asked my husband and until a couple months ago I didn't know he loved that I did . He bragged to his friends and coworkers. I would have loved that he would have done it but being that he procrastinates we probably wouldnt be married right now lol

Thanks for the insight! I hope he'll love it and not just throw it at me!! Haha!