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beauty pageants **EDiT AGAiN**WiTH NEW ? AT BOTTOM

Posted by on Nov. 21, 2009 at 5:58 PM
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Question: How do you feel about them?

Options:

I have put my child in one or more and most likely will again.

I have put my child in one and will never do it again.

Never have but I plan to in the future.

Never have, never will.

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I was just curious about this. Im puttin mine in a Christmas pagent in December and really excited :) But i will in no way MAKE her do them when she's old enough to decide whether she likes them or not. But i have heard women say they would never put their child in one. I'm just curious why. EDIT: NO MAKEUP OR VERY LITTLE MAKEUP etc. PAGENTS LIKE LOCAL PAGENTS- JUST WANNA MAKE THAT CLEAR. NOT LIKE TODDLERS AND TIARAS OR ANYTHING OF THAT SORT NEW QUESTION*****for the mothers sayin no way, what if they came out and asked u if they could be in one? would u still say no?
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IluvAsialots4
by on Nov. 21, 2009 at 6:03 PM

my daughter likes them

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carolynhowell
by Bronze Member on Nov. 21, 2009 at 6:11 PM
aww :) my daughters cousin is 3 and she loves them too. Mine is only almost 5 months old so she obviously won't care right now. How old is your daughter?
NananRaysmom
by Silver Member on Nov. 21, 2009 at 6:11 PM

Depends...natural ones are OK.  The ones where the girls get all made up are SICK...IMO.  The tanning, fake teeth, fake hair pieces, fake eyelashes, 2 piece swimming suits...all of it is disgusting.  I would never put my kids on stage dressed up like a little hooker...and that's how allot of them look.  If your kid isn't cute enough to win looking natural...beauty pageants are not for them.

The show on TLC...allot of those girls are really not cute at all without all the crap on them...

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AutymsMommy
by Ruby Member on Nov. 21, 2009 at 6:11 PM

Never have, never will. No child of mine will step foot in a beauty pageant.

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reelo
by on Nov. 21, 2009 at 6:15 PM

No child of mine, ever.

Honestly, I think child beauty pagents are more about mom's needing to feel important, so instead of teaching their kids to be valued and appreciated for being intelligent, smart, capable women they teach them that they have no worth other then looking decent in a bikini.  I can't believe parents actually voluntarily put their kids in them.

 

   

DanaG70
by Platinum Member on Nov. 21, 2009 at 6:15 PM

Nope, don't like them. 



prego7386
by on Nov. 21, 2009 at 6:17 PM

i voted other because i have a boy. if i had a daughter *I* personally would if she wanted to but my husband said no way. i never did them i think it is bad when the mom is wayyy to in to them and tells their teen to watch what they are eating and stuff like that...just let them have fun for goodness sakes!

miss_nevin
by on Nov. 21, 2009 at 6:18 PM

Honestly never have but I would if I knew more about how to

carolynhowell
by Bronze Member on Nov. 21, 2009 at 6:18 PM

Quoting NananRaysmom:

Depends...natural ones are OK. The ones where the girls get all made up are SICK...IMO. The tanning, fake teeth, fake hair pieces, fake eyelashes, 2 piece swimming suits...all of it is disgusting. I would never put my kids on stage dressed up like a little hooker...and that's how allot of them look. If your kid isn't cute enough to win looking natural...beauty pageants are not for them.

The show on TLC...allot of those girls are really not cute at all without all the crap on them...


i agree. i feel sorry for those little girls most of them hate it. makeup isnt for little girls IMO
amayabrianna
by Platinum Member on Nov. 21, 2009 at 6:22 PM

 I have put my oldest DD in them for the past 2 years and she loves them. It is something for her to do outside her day to day life. She is a tomboy everyday except pageant days. She loves to get dressed up and prance on stage. There are some negative concepts out there about pageants but I think alot of them come from what they see on TV not from actually having ever been to one. She also has one on Dec. 5th!!! CAN'T WAIT!!!
Here is my DD at here most recent one:

She is also in a positive pageant video shes at about 2:09

 

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