so my husband, the only child he is...his mom feels the need to come baby him while he is sick..so she's been at our house since last night...she drives me absolutly INSANE!!! I cant stand this lady, and she'll never have my trust or respect until she understands that she is being rude!
She comes into MY HOME like she owns the place, rearranges things, cleans things I JUST CLEANED, complians because I don't wash the baby bottles fast enough or do the dishes the miliseconed after they are dirty...blah..I have TWO KIDS, our family scheduale WORKS for us...dishes are cleaned every other day, if not every day, and the bottles are cleaned EVERY DAY....good greif...
But this has just put me over the edge today....Ada woke up from her nap shortly after 3, she wasn't supposed to eat again UNTIL 4:30...she just hasn't taken long naps today, so what! So MIL asks TO MY FACE if she can feed Ada, and I say "No, not for another hour." Hubby was in the bedroom, and I went to ask him something, and we ended up having like a 10 minuet conversation....
Crazy lady decides to go BEHIND MY BACK and feed my baby a bottle anyway...an hour and a half early!!!! And I have proof because I walked in on her feeding the baby, and she goes, oh i am sorry is it too early?! I JUST TOLD YOU!!! OMG!!!!
How do I deal with this?! If you have the nerve to go behind my back IN MY OWN HOME, what on earth makes me think you will actually RESPECT ME when I am NOT AROUND?! I need help with this before I explode on her!
it will never get any better unless you talk to her and tell her...
I know this, this is where it gets sticky, she is such a fragile person, that the slightest things make her bawl like a baby...even if you are being as nice as possibly can be....seriously...omg.
Quoting Just_Me_1326:
it will never get any better unless you talk to her and tell her...
Quoting Just_Me_1326:it will never get any better unless you talk to her and tell her...
Tell your MIL that if she cant respect you in your own home then she can leave. And if ths doesnt stop her BS tell her to leave.
As for me I wouldnt have let her stay to begin with. Your husband is a grown man with a wife there to care for him. I wouldnt have let her come over with him cisk.
I spent 15 yrs angry for the stupidity of my MIL. I finally had enough and told her off. I suggest that you make it clear to her that your house IS your house and if she can't abide by your rules then she can leave. Hand her her purse and tell her the apron strings have been cut. Escort her to the front door!
Why does your husband feel it is necessary to have his mommy take care of him while he is sick? Tell him to grow a pair, be a man and make sure she respects his wife.
Because he feels bad for her....straight from his mouth!!!! Seriously, she is so delicate, everything makes her cry, hes constiantly afraid of hurting her feelings...we orginally asked her to come down so I could go to a breakfast this morning, that did't happen, then we told her not any more b/c it got canclled, then he felt bad for her, so he told her to come any way! Seriously....ahhhhh...and I know if I talk to her she WILL cry, and then I'll just be the bad person for making her cry and nothing will get solved.
Quoting vicki77433:
Why does your husband feel it is necessary to have his mommy take care of him while he is sick? Tell him to grow a pair, be a man and make sure she respects his wife.
Quoting LizzieAnnesMom:
Tell your MIL that if she cant respect you in your own home then she can leave. And if ths doesnt stop her BS tell her to leave.
As for me I wouldnt have let her stay to begin with. Your husband is a grown man with a wife there to care for him. I wouldnt have let her come over with him cisk.
This. I dislike my MIL as well. I feel your pain.
Quoting nanaT2:
I spent 15 yrs angry for the stupidity of my MIL. I finally had enough and told her off. I suggest that you make it clear to her that your house IS your house and if she can't abide by your rules then she can leave. Hand her her purse and tell her the apron strings have been cut. Escort her to the front door!
I think I love you. ;)
oh i bet you she knows this and uses that to her advantage.. she must be stopped lol
Quoting anikahaynes1:
I know this, this is where it gets sticky, she is such a fragile person, that the slightest things make her bawl like a baby...even if you are being as nice as possibly can be....seriously...omg.
Quoting Just_Me_1326:
it will never get any better unless you talk to her and tell her...
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on Nov. 21, 2009 at 7:43 PM