so my dh acts like he has no responsibility besides work.but we have 2 kids and he doesnt help take care of them its always all about him he plays PlayStation all day when he gets home from about 4:00pm untill about 1am i dont say anything he plays on the weekend from about 10am to maybe 3am everything day every weekend.and he drinks everything day about 6drinks or more i still dont say anything but tonight i have had it.i dont like people that smoke pot around me or my kids and i dont want them in my house i dont like it and i dont have to.well my DH thought it would be fun to get high with the people next door.im pissed and i have every right to be.but he just thinks im being stupid and i have no right to be mad.he has kids he needs to grow up and act like and not come in my house smelling like weed.im so sick of putting up with this shit this was it for me.im done i cant be with him anymore he just thinks about him self and treats me like yesterdays trash.i wouldnt be so pissed if he helped me.gave me time to myself.treated me like his wife not a stray dog.i have asked him to leave once already last weekend he was gone for a few days and then told me he would change but this just put me over the edge.im leaving him.i should be with someone who treats me and my kids good not someone he calls them self a father but acts like a 15yr old.i mean he can lose his job over this they do random drug test and anyone who test + are fired on the spot
How old is he? How old was he when you got married? Did he play a lot of video games before you got married and had children?
he is going to be 33 in march.he was 30 and he played them but not as much maybe every few months
Quoting futureshock:
How old is he? How old was he when you got married? Did he play a lot of video games before you got married and had children?
i know how u feel i seriouslt think it would eb easier to be a single mom then to try and have to raise he kid and my husband...theyre way more work then help...good luck hun hope every thing works out
uuggh...i am SOOO glad my husband is not into the video game stuff...expensive and time consuming. u should auction it off on eBay lol...for me, football season and the internet is bad enough.
it pisses me off too, when dh smokes out. one, because we have a child (one on the way, also). two, because it costs $$ to do, and that is money that could be spent on other stuff. we both work FT and when he disappears outside after a long day and i need help inside, it makes me mad, too. if anything were to ever happen, and he has to for some reason take a drug test, he will fail. i worry he will lose a job, or worse, some how cause us to lose custody! he's pretty discreet, but it irks the crap out of me. besides, smoking out is so high school! sooner or later the kids will figure out what he is doing.
your DH needs a serious reality check. yes, working is hard, but taking care of the kids is exhausting! i cant stand it when the husband thinks its his right to take off right after work...you have been going non stop, too! wish i had some advice for ya..... GL tho!
im SAHM so he throws that in my face all the time he works he should be able to do as he wants i got up at 4am everyone morning thats when ds gets up i got to bed everynight around 1am thats when dd goes to bed im so tired havent been able to be by myself for more then 5mins in 2 1/2 yrs and he thinks he has the right to do what he wants i cant take it anymore i feel like an aweful mother because im always so tired and i get upset really quick and i dont know what to do
Quoting iamcafemom83:
uuggh...i am SOOO glad my husband is not into the video game stuff...expensive and time consuming. u should auction it off on eBay lol...for me, football season and the internet is bad enough.
it pisses me off too, when dh smokes out. one, because we have a child (one on the way, also). two, because it costs $$ to do, and that is money that could be spent on other stuff. we both work FT and when he disappears outside after a long day and i need help inside, it makes me mad, too. if anything were to ever happen, and he has to for some reason take a drug test, he will fail. i worry he will lose a job, or worse, some how cause us to lose custody! he's pretty discreet, but it irks the crap out of me. besides, smoking out is so high school! sooner or later the kids will figure out what he is doing.
your DH needs a serious reality check. yes, working is hard, but taking care of the kids is exhausting! i cant stand it when the husband thinks its his right to take off right after work...you have been going non stop, too! wish i had some advice for ya..... GL tho!
he doesnt smoke pot all the time but still i hate it and he knows it and yes he has a drinking problem and he knows it and says AA is for quitters and he isnt a quitter
Quoting futureshock:
Sounds like he is addicted.
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