cheating and having another mans baby

[heavenlyangl420]

 has anyone cheated and then got pregnant? do you know who the father is and does you S/O know? if he found out did you work things out or break up?

the cheating post made me wonder? my friend and her husband broke uo and she had sex with someone else and then got back with her hubby. well she ended up pregnant and didnt know if it was her husbands until the baby was born and the baby was white. (the other guy was mixed)

[CoUrtNEyLeE]

I couldn't imagine being in that situation! I will never cheat on my husband, I have enough respect for him that if I really wanted someone else I would have the courtesy  to leave my DH first!

[heavenlyangl420]

yes but sometimes things happen. they were married but seperated. he doesnt know she had a boyfriend during that time. she didnt tell him and was scared the entire time she was pregnant. but her son looks just like daddy 

[mistyann17]

umm if the guy was mixed with white, the baby can turn out white.. ive seen it happen

[Fit_Momma_Of_2]

My sister did. But she's a whore!! She told me there were 4 men that could be the father of her baby. She ended up just telling her husband that it was his BUT to me it doesnt look like him AT ALL.  

[heavenlyangl420]

Quoting mistyann17:

umm if the guy was mixed with white, the baby can turn out white.. ive seen it happen

he was mixed with black and mexican.  her son is fair white with blond hair and he looks just like his dad

[Ariesmama4life]

I know I have never been in that situation but my Aunt was. She cheated on my uncle and was unsure who the father was until they were born(the other guy was black). She told him about cheating as soon as she found out she was pregnant and they worked things out and have been together for over 10 years. 

[Elizabeth075]

i think either way your friend needs to be honest with her dh about the baby.

if her dh wants to raise the baby as his then thats great but he should know if its his.  

[pluma69]

Quoting heavenlyangl420:

Quoting mistyann17:

umm if the guy was mixed with white, the baby can turn out white.. ive seen it happen

he was mixed with black and mexican.  her son is fair white with blond hair and he looks just like his dad

I promise you that with out a paternity test that doesn't mean anything! but for their sake i hope it is his.... my friend is maried to half black/mexican also and their baby came out with blonde hair blue eyes and white skin!!! it was quiet amazing!