He wont give me my son back

[ilovemyaj]

My X had visitation today 830-2....He usually picks him up and and brings him home since i dont have a car...It is owned by my bf and he wont let me take it there....Well i tried calling at 2 wondering where he is and they told me i had to go get home.....I tried calling the cops but they telling me not much can be done...that i would have to go to court and petition....I dont know what to do i want my baby back

I meant go get him* im to upset to type..soorry... And i lost my keys so i couldnt go anyways..Ive looked everywhere for my keys and cant find them.

Edit: I found where my son put my keys.....they were in his room. Yes i know i could have taken the car but seeing as though i could not find my keys and HAD no money for gas i was in tough situation. Coming on here and seeking advice is the last thing i will ever do from now on..Do you ladies have no time to sit here and just bash someone in a serious manner...I could not walk either i live 20 minutes from my X! And my bf lives 3 hours away!! luckily i didnt care i found the keys picked up my baby and went home and Empty was scared i wasnt even going to make it home! So therefor learn to be nice to other mommas that need advice..Im no troll thank you

[USMCBride08]

do you have a custody ruling? JW since you said he had visitation...

if you do, then its kidnapping... but if not, go in ASAP tomorrow and file an emergency hearing....

maybe see if you can somehow get him back before then... are you friends with anyone in his family? 

[TheSinFamily]

I"m sorry about your son. ..but I am confused on this post. Your boyfriend will not let you use his car to see if your son is ok? What kind of man is that?? Why won't he drive you then? And when you called at 2 - who did you talk to? Why did they tell you you had to "go get home"?? Also - how old is your son?

[3boyz1princess]

If you have court papers that states what his visitation rights are the police have to go by that..If you dont have any court papers then yes you have to contact the courts...good luck mama 

[Sarah993]

Were you married and if so did you get divorced or do you have any papers from the court setting out custody and visitation?  If so bring those to the police station.  Why won't your bf let you take the car to get your kids?  Your only other option is to wait and if they are school age be there to pick them up after school.

[Christine0813]

Quoting TheSinFamily:

I"m sorry about your son. ..but I am confused on this post. Your boyfriend will not let you use his car to see if your son is ok? What kind of man is that?? Why won't he drive you then? And when you called at 2 - who did you talk to? Why did they tell you you had to "go get home"?? Also - how old is your son?

[luv2wahm]

Quoting TheSinFamily:

I"m sorry about your son. ..but I am confused on this post. Your boyfriend will not let you use his car to see if your son is ok? What kind of man is that?? Why won't he drive you then? And when you called at 2 - who did you talk to? Why did they tell you you had to "go get home"?? Also - how old is your son?

Exactly what I was wondering...

[busymomma75]

what she said and also its only 2:30..still early to jump to conclusions UNLESS they said he wasn't bringing him back

Quoting TheSinFamily:

I"m sorry about your son. ..but I am confused on this post. Your boyfriend will not let you use his car to see if your son is ok? What kind of man is that?? Why won't he drive you then? And when you called at 2 - who did you talk to? Why did they tell you you had to "go get home"?? Also - how old is your son?

[tretresmom]

Quoting TheSinFamily:

I"m sorry about your son. ..but I am confused on this post. Your boyfriend will not let you use his car to see if your son is ok? What kind of man is that?? Why won't he drive you then? And when you called at 2 - who did you talk to? Why did they tell you you had to "go get home"?? Also - how old is your son?

Same things I was wondering.

[i.heart.rachel]

I'm confused. However, if you think your son is in danger you need to go to the court house tomorrow and file a restraining order against your X FOR your son.. it's a child protection order, and they will bring him back RIGHT away if the judge believes he would be in danger. I had to do this last year.

Oh, and your boyfriend is an asshole if he's not letting you take his car to get your own kid. Dump him now before you have a kid with him and have this situation with HIM as well. ICK!!

[SnoBuny]

He wont let you check on your child? Why would you want to be with someone like that? Time to put your foot down for your son! He should come first!

Quoting TheSinFamily:

I"m sorry about your son. ..but I am confused on this post. Your boyfriend will not let you use his car to see if your son is ok? What kind of man is that?? Why won't he drive you then? And when you called at 2 - who did you talk to? Why did they tell you you had to "go get home"?? Also - how old is your son?