PA and Miscarriage

[rockinmom82]

Someone actually told my friend this: "I'm happy you miscarried. You are on PA and don't need another child."

So my question is this.

Do you agree?

You don't have to reply with your answer, just answer the poll and keep bumped.

Thanks!

[mama310583]

FUBAR

[ashleyrenee24]

That's a mean and heartless thing to say.

[KalistaW]

I can't believe this is a serious question.

Hell no I'm not happy when someone on public assistance or not loses a child. That is horrible.

[AquarianPath]

Quoting mama310583:

FUBAR

[JasonsMom2007]

No, I've had a miscarriage and wouldn't wish it on anybody.

[alwaysyoung]

Quoting KalistaW:

I can't believe this is a serious question.

Hell no I'm not happy when someone on public assistance or not loses a child. That is horrible.

[matswife2023]

This happened to me, when I was applying for PA I was pregnant and already had one child and a few weeks later I miscarried.

[2babybats]

That is a horrible thing to say to someone! Anyone who would actually say that to a person is the one who doesn't need any kids. That's beyond insensitive.

[rockinmom82]

Shocking, but yes, it is true. She called me just a bit ago crying her eyes out over this. The real kicker is that it was someone in her family.

I've had 3 miscarriages and I can honestly say, if someone would have said that to me, I'd have to go off on them.

[purplemoosemom]

Why would ANYONE in their right mind be HAPPY that someone LOST THEIR BABY!?!? How horrible and what a cruel thing to say!