Yesterday was my b/fs birthday. We went out to a couple of bars and he had a few drinks. Lucky for him, I'm prego and can't drink so he had for sure DD (It really sucks being prego ina bar! lol) We went to a bar we used to go to all the time to find our friend that just had a baby back at work! YAY! I was glad to see her. Well, Her husband (who works there too) kept giving b/f shots of turkey (he don't drink nothing but beer most of the time... and that did him in. lol) SO, drunk b/f and I went to a strip club I used to work at so we could see a good friend of mine I used to work with... While talking with her (b/f was out of it, sipping on his beer) I thought about the birthday dances where they put a guy (or sometimes girl) on stage and they get a 5 sec lapdance from all the girls working that night (this club is not nude, the dancers have to wear pasties and have to keep thongs on and b/f had no clue what I was thinking of doing). It was funny enough to put him on stage, with a red face, in front of everyone to get lapdances... If you only knew how quite and shy he is... but the best part came when my old boss told him it was his turn to dance... b/f don't dance... He stood up and did a drunken white boy dance! My friend and I was laughing so hard my mouth and stomach was sore! THEN he told him to do a pole trick... Well, b/f tries to do a flip thing and fails horriably in his drunkin state and ends up shaking his butt instead... This is not my b/f! LOL he dosn't like being the center of attention, lol. Well. After all that was over, he says "thank you, not every woman would let thier man do that" and I was like "well, your comming home with me. lol." We had a good time.
I do have a question, Would you do this for your S/O for his b-day or other special occasion? Just wondering, while I worked there, I only saw a couple of women willing to embarrass their man like that. After we left (b/f starting to sober up by this time) He said "You were the most beautiful woman there... you are carrying my baby and no one is more beautiful than you" ... That was just the sweetist thing... I know how much he loves me. I also asked him if he enjoyed his dances and he said he tried to but all he kept thinking about was having to pee! LOL.
We don't drink or go to strip clubs, so it's not something we, personally, would do.
Personally, no, I wouldn't do that. I don't go to strip clubs of any sort, and I made my DH promise me when we got married that he wouldn't go either because I consider it a form of cheating...In my opinion, a man doesn't need to go to strip clubs when he's got a woman at home. But that's just my opinion. To each their own though.
My husband would, literally, die of embarrassment. Last weekend we had a little too much and he ended up sing Karaoke. Seriously, I am surprised it did not make the 6 o'clock news...lol Sounds like you guys had fun, though!
Dh wouldn't be interested. If he wants a naked body on him dancing he will tell you the only one he wants to see is mine. MANY years ago (as friends).. we went to one. He told me if I was his there would be no reason for us to go. He said my body from head to toe made the ones up there dancing look like sh!t. Not to arrogant, but I had to agree. Needless to say there is no need for 2.00 bills in his life.
Quoting ArmyWifey4907:
Personally, no, I wouldn't do that. I don't go to strip clubs of any sort, and I made my DH promise me when we got married that he wouldn't go either because I consider it a form of cheating...In my opinion, a man doesn't need to go to strip clubs when he's got a woman at home. But that's just my opinion. To each their own though.
I gotta say, I don't think I'd want him to go alone. I trust him, but I don't trust alot of girls, so if he goes I go. Plus, he's not really that interested in going anyways. Being I used to be a dancer, I've seen alot of things go on in there... Even in his lap dance I was sitting right there (I actually was trying to help my friend out, she was having a bad night money wise)
My hubby would hate it! He won't even let his guy friends drag him into those places. He's so funny he acts like a little church boy :)
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