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If you found out your S/O had HIV/AIDS, would you stay?

Posted by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 5:54 PM
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A couple scenarios here.

1) They contracted the virus from cheating on you

2) Contracted the virus from an open wound and another HIV+ individual

3)Contracted the virus from cheating AND now you tested positive for HIV

4) Scenario number 2 and now you have it

 

EDIT.sorry ladies! i fixed it to how i meant to say it =]

 

Would you stay? Leave? Whats your reasoning?

Posted by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 5:54 PM
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FooLynRoo
by Emerald Member on Nov. 22, 2009 at 5:56 PM

Of course I would, in all scenarios

mcsmom1
by Gold Member on Nov. 22, 2009 at 5:56 PM

Since he shouldn't have had sex with anyone but me for the last 20 years, the only option would be #2.  I wouldn't leave him for that reason but any of the others and his ass would be on the curb!

mistie900
by Platinum Member on Nov. 22, 2009 at 5:57 PM

Aren't 3 and 4 the same thing? I don't know much about it. But no I would not stay not only because he gave me AIDS but he cheated on me and I wouldn't be with him if he cheated on me.

Oh yeah I guess I should say that even if he hadn't given me AIDS/HIV I would still leave him if he had it because I value my life (harsh I know but true)

-xoxo-
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 5:57 PM

1. No

2. Probably

3. No

4. Isn't 3 and 4 the same thing, or am I misreading? 

Violets.Mommy
by Allison on Nov. 22, 2009 at 5:57 PM

If my husband had it I would as well most likely. For better or for worse right...this is a pretty bad worse though.

i.heart.rachel
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 5:57 PM

I would stay, unless she had gotten it from cheating on me. However, it's unlikely that she would contract any STD.

24 year old, God loving, non-vaxing, tutu making WAH momma to Jenelle, Gracelynn, and Sapphire. Girlfriend to Rachel (not wife, because apparently some people are AGAINST two loving, consenting adults marrying).

meghan451
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 5:58 PM

if he cheated on me no. 

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luv_my_xiya
by Ruby Member on Nov. 22, 2009 at 5:58 PM

1) no

2) hmmm possibly

3 & 4) no 





 

KairisMama
by Ruby Member on Nov. 22, 2009 at 5:58 PM

If he contracted it from cheating I'd be GONE. Aids or not I'd be gone if he cheated. There is no marriage without trust.

If he had HIV from scenario 2, of course I would stay. Lots of people live with HIV.  

      turkey


                                

mamabeth4180
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 6:01 PM


Quoting KairisMama:

If he contracted it from cheating I'd be GONE. Aids or not I'd be gone if he cheated. There is no marriage without trust.

If he had HIV from scenario 2, of course I would stay. Lots of people live with HIV.  



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