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(married ladies) How do you wear your rings?

Posted by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 8:23 PM
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Question: How do you wear your wedding/egagement rings?

Options:

I don't have an engagement ring, only wedding band.

Egagement ring on top/ band on bottom.

Wedding band on top/ engagement ring on bottom.

Other! :)


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I always wondered what other people did when they got married and had an engagement ring. At my wedding, I put my engagement ring on my right ring finger and after we were married and he put my wedding ring on my left ring finger I put my engagement ring on top. I asked later if this was the 'right' thing to do and my mom said "put your engagement ring on the top because that's what you got first."

I always take my rings off at night and if I'm not going anywhere I won't wear them because I always break out REALLY badly..we've gotten 2 sets of rings and I'm allergic to both white and yellow gold.

(If you don't have an engagement ring, this doesn't apply I guess.)

(I guess I'll add a poll too...sounds like a good poll question.)

              
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Posted by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 8:23 PM
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imthatgirl728
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 8:25 PM

Couldn;t answer. Although I have a beautiful set...I never wear my rings. Maybe once a year if that. But if I was going to wear them it would be engagement on top.

PookaboosMom
by Platinum Member on Nov. 22, 2009 at 8:25 PM

My sister in laws told me that the engagement ring goes on top because the happyness you had when you were engaged is what is holding your marriage together, and it is what came first, where it all started. 

kjbennett26
by ♥Kate♥ on Nov. 22, 2009 at 8:26 PM

Your wedding band goes on 1st then your engagement ring because your marriage is closest to your heart. :)

Katie...proud mommy to Andrew, MaKayla and Christopher,and loving wife to Jay!


jillbailey26
by Zen Smarts on Nov. 22, 2009 at 8:26 PM

Wedding band is closest to the heart  :)



FooLynRoo
by Emerald Member on Nov. 22, 2009 at 8:26 PM

I don't know what you mean top and bottom

but I wear my wedding band on the inside, followed by my engagement ring.

The wedding band is the closest to my heart.

babybee2007
by Silver Member on Nov. 22, 2009 at 8:26 PM

I wear my wedding band on bottom, engagement right on top.  I just heard that's how you're "supposed" to do it....

dragonfly80608
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 8:27 PM

Wedding band goes on first so it is closer to your heart.

mommybug77
by Crystal on Nov. 22, 2009 at 8:27 PM

They are welded togther now. It does not matter which one is on top.

SGJsmom
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 8:27 PM

On my finger...lol I wear my engagement ring on top.

isra1986
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 8:27 PM
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