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Would You?????

Posted by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 10:30 PM
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Question: Would you cheat for sexual pleasure?

Options:

Yes

No

Maybe

Don't Care


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Total Votes: 29

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So I was talking with a friend today and she is telling me about her sex life and that it sucks. She is not satisfied with her husband. He is the type to do his buisness and roll over. He does not care if she finished as long as he did. Well she gave me the shock of a life today she is cheating on her husband with another man. She said that if she couldn't get satisfied with her husband she was going to get satisfied by this other man. I told her that if she was going to cheat why be with her husband at all to just leave him. She said that she loves her husband but that the sex is not all there and she has tried diffrent things to get him turned on more and he wont budge. She said that she can love her husband but cheat to get satisfied sexually........

So here is my question. If ur hubby or SO will not even make an attempt to please you sexually would you cheat just for sex? Now when you answer take consideration of what I explained. He will not care as long as he finishes. He wont try again even if you make the first move.

Posted by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 10:30 PM
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goatmom4
by Silver Member on Nov. 22, 2009 at 10:32 PM

gahl sshe needs to wake up the kids will get hurt too   she should jsut show her hubby some tricks and demand that time maybe he is jsut not confident and needs   help      I would never cheat

Avabliss
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 10:35 PM

I'm going balls out and tell you I voted yes.

HOWEVER, I would try everything else first including sexual counseling.  I would never see myself in that situation tho cause from my experience men that are selfish in bed are selfish in other aspects of the relationship and if that was the case I would leave him completely. 

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Beth5289
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 10:36 PM

I voted "maybe" but in likely hood... I'd "cheat" using toys...

Beth

Stephaniel28
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 10:37 PM


Quoting Avabliss:

I'm going balls out and tell you I voted yes.

HOWEVER, I would try everything else first including sexual counseling.  I would never see myself in that situation tho cause from my experience men that are selfish in bed are selfish in other aspects of the relationship and if that was the case I would leave him completely. 


Mommytwo6angels
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 10:37 PM

I would have to agree with you. If all else fails I think I would cheat to.

Quoting Avabliss:

I'm going balls out and tell you I voted yes.

HOWEVER, I would try everything else first including sexual counseling.  I would never see myself in that situation tho cause from my experience men that are selfish in bed are selfish in other aspects of the relationship and if that was the case I would leave him completely. 


ShaynaBourgeois
by on Nov. 22, 2009 at 10:39 PM

All i can say is that if SO goes before i do then i always have my own personal vibrator and that does the trick EVERY TIME!

 

Shayna <3 Bryan expecting first baby girl!

babysyoungmom1
by Gold Member on Nov. 22, 2009 at 10:41 PM

Maybe. I was with my ex for 4 yrs and NO ORGASM EVER. Not even close for me. I was seriously considering it. Just a one time thing so i could have an orgasm at least once in my life.

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