I am so pissed the ungreatfull childish a-holes

[LCWAmommy]

 

 my brother and his girl friend asked if they could order a fight on PPV satruday and have a few friends over they wanted to watch it on our T.V. because his is tiny I asked how late it would be (because my kids need to be able to go to bed and I don't care about stuff like that) and he said "Oh it starts early so it won't be late" come to find it starts at 7:30 and the main event is not until 9 or so Ok fine as long as they are not too loud it should be ok. They asked if the bought ribs if hubbie would BBQ them OK he doesn't mind fine I said since they where buying ribs I would do macaroni salad and corn . The day of their party comes and they don't offer to help at all I only one of their friends comes (she brings her 7 year old niece I didn't know about) plus my friends and their daughter and my Nana, we do all the cooking then hubbie builds a fire so the kids can do smores.  The whole time my brother his girlfriend and her friend are in his room
(it's out behind the garage) when they where around they didn't talk to anyone but each other and once I went out to ask him something and the door was locked, all this time the friends niece was in my house. After the fight was over the girl friend left (she walked through the house and said good bye) and no one even offered to help clean up the mess. It is now after 12 and my brother is still in bed and hubbie has already cleaned all their soda cans and crap up out of the back yard. I am just so mad about the whole thing I was nice enough to let them do this and was nice and tried to talk to everyone and they just ignored everyone the whole night and didn't even offer to help with the preparations or clean up. I was also having to deal with my kids and once my Nana got stuck in the bathroom and we had to go in and pick her up off the pot asnd put her in her wheel chair (she's not a small woman) she was so upset about it she didn't enjoy her dinner and she loves ribs. 

[jjessers]

Are you the Mama who posted a little while ago about BIL living w/ you and asked if GF could live there too..and that they weren't contributing to the house..but using everything?

 

[alwaysyoung]

bump

[littleluvkitty]

i would talk to them and tell them that they are no longer welcome to do that in your house if they are not going to clean up after themselves.

[LCWAmommy]

Quoting jjessers:

Are you the Mama who posted a little while ago about BIL living w/ you and asked if GF could live there too..and that they weren't contributing to the house..but using everything?

 

Nope not me my brother lives in the room built behind the garage he has to buy all his stuff and pays us 300 a month for rent

[jjessers]

Quoting LCWAmommy:

Quoting jjessers:

Are you the Mama who posted a little while ago about BIL living w/ you and asked if GF could live there too..and that they weren't contributing to the house..but using everything?

 

Nope not me my brother lives in the room built behind the garage he has to buy all his stuff and pays us 300 a month for rent

ok :)

I would defintiely let them know how upset I was...and that there will be no more of their get togethers in your house.

[LCWAmommy]

Quoting littleluvkitty:

i would talk to them and tell them that they are no longer welcome to do that in your house if they are not going to clean up after themselves.

they have lost the chance to have anything here again. I asked my brother what the hell was going on and he said his GF thought my friend was being stand offish to her. I told him that was a bunch of crap because they where out back most of the time and my friend was inside with me and my nana because I didn't want to leave her by her self (she's in a wheel chair so it's not easy to get her down the back steps),  and my friend went out and said hi to everyone when she got there and tried to talk to them when they where inside. I told him if shes going to be childish then I'm not even going to try I don't care if she likes me or not that is all her problem. My friend had my brother and GF over the other night for dinner and my brother asked her to tell his GF that she liked her REALLY how old is she she shouldn't have to have someone tell her they like her. 

[DaisyAg2003]

I would not allow him to "host", and I use that word loosely, anymore get togethers at your house...and I would bill him for the cooking of the food, and the babysitting, and the cleaning!

[LCWAmommy]

Quoting DaisyAg2003:

I would not allow him to "host", and I use that word loosely, anymore get togethers at your house...and I would bill him for the cooking of the food, and the babysitting, and the cleaning!

yeah I feel like we where catering or something never again!!!