how often do you fight/argue with your SO?

[exceptalilfish]

it seems like every couple i know ALWAYS fights and thinks it is okay to say things like "fuck you, or fuck off" or critsize each other all the time and talk bad about each other behind their backs. my SO and i NEVER fight. we may have a very small argument over something stupid like once a week and we actually talk it out, forgive each other, and get over it. is that the norm? or is fighting all the time the norm?

[mommyziegler]

haha all day everyday!

[ShaynaBourgeois]

Me and SO are much like you. We have very few arguments but we keep our line of communication open so if anytime we are upset or bothered by something, we talk it out. And we NEVER go to bed upset or bothered about anything!

 

[missedbirch]

My husband and I are the same way as you and your SO are. It is always something petty and stupid but once its done its done and all is forgotten.

[SuperPickle]

We very very very rarely argue. And NEVER swear at each other. We have been together since I was 14, we got all our drama out in high school LOL

[gardenchic]

actually , we never ever fight.. not even a tiny argument, we are both the type to sit and talk and never get angry..

[scottysmomma]

We used to fight all the time... but a short spit made us see how true our love is and that fighting is NOT worth it so now we hardly ever fight...and if we do its for like 2 minutes then we are over it!  And NEVER in front of the kids! 

[momma43789]

when we do fight it isn't often but it's usually about big stuff not the petty nit picking type of fights. and never around our kids. all our friends are constantly fighting the reason they like to hang out w/ us is b/c we don't lol

[laylasmommy2006]

We "fight"  then talk it out once we've calmed down...then forgive each other...then more on...i talk behind his back...never have...what i say to anyone i say to him...so idk...we "fight" alot...but thats how we work...

[3boyz1princess]

 We have NEVER had a fight in the 10 yrs we have been together.  Now we did have a disagreement over his golf time one time and then last night we had another disagreement and it involved a golf time since were doing our sons birthday and tee time messed it up but he changed it..lol So we dont fight

[lexik16]

Honestly IDK but I've seen that too. Dh and I would argue like once a month or so and we always talk it out. We get along pretty good. There are some months of the year I've seen that we argue more, for some reason we argue more in March than any other month. LOL. We disagree in many things but we always try to resolve everything before it becomes a heated argument. I can actually count how many times we have had a big fight/argument. We don't curse or call each other names either, I mean you can disagree, everyone is entitled to their opinions, and I think things get through to the other person a lot better when you talk but that is no excuse to disrespect the other person.

Someone told me once that "you can attrack more bees with honey" so we try to keep it clean.