Ok back story years ago DH and I tried the swingers life style and well it didn't work for me because of jelousey and my DH doing things he shouldn't. We had very strick rules. Our rules layed like this.
1. No sexual contact with out other present
2. Only play with the select couples.
3. If one of us feels that its not right we stop
4. If some thing would happen don't lie if the other isn't present.
Ok so we had a group of 5 couples. We all had kids and we always played safe. All the guys were fixed and all us girls were on some type of birth control. An well all got tested often.
Well one of the girls popped for an STD. I know I didn't give it to her or any one else. Well the girl who popped postive for an STD was very freaked out. My DD had a nasty cold the day we found out. Well DH deciedes he was going to go talk to this girl and I wasn't happy about it but I couldn't pin him down.
The next day while DH is at work he calls me and askes me to go into his email and forward some thing to him. An I couldn't find it I was looking at all his folders. (DH is an IT and makes folders for everything)
I found this note and till this day it still sits in a folder. This note was naughty. I'll share the note so you all can tell me what you think. Well I lost it when I found this note. I called him and I called her screaming. They both swear they didn't have sex but it still nags at me how this note sounds I think deep down they did have sex. I almost killed myself over this. Thankfully we worked evertything out and that was the end of us being swingers.
Here is the note please tell me if you think they had sex or not.
Nice pic ther girl, hey I had an awesome time last
nite, hopefully John was not mad at u. I told Jenn we
made out and all, but not about the upstairs part
because think she would get upset, last nite i didnt,
but I think it ws my dick thinking more than my mind,
becasue you turned me on so dam mcuh. Well me and
Jenn went to get tested and they went ahead and gave
us the meds, so in a week we willl be good. The
initial test didnt show any signs, now we have to
wait for the final test. But I really did have fun
last nite, and I could have jsut sat there holding you
and kissing u all nite too. Dont want you to think
that I only want sex, I want you as a friend first
that I can share time with you know. Anyway. Take care
baby. Going to lay down with Jenn.
Miles
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I found the note the day after it all went down. Its been 3 years now but when I run across old friends from that time it nags at me.
Quoting TheSinFamily:how long ago did you first find this note?
Erm..............EVERYTHING in that note implies that they had sex.
I'm glad this is not something written by my man! I would vomit with the hurt and fear.
He says he doesn't put some thing screams at me that they did. We are happy but I ran across one of our old friends on FaceBook and she questioned me about what all went down so it brought it all back again ugggg
Quoting KT9105:Something definintely happened. Can't say exactly what. I'd ask him.
Quoting myfoursonsks:
They did something. Maybe it was just oral sex..but something happened...
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on Nov. 23, 2009 at 2:16 PM