So what if I dye my hair all the time. I like to change. I don't like looking the same all the time...
So what if I am not friends with the wives from my husband's squadron. Most (not all) of the ones I've met insist on acting like they are in high school...
So what if I don't care that my husband watches porn...
So what if I like to eat like a pig. Leave me alone. I love to stuff my face...
So what if you think that I am lame because I don't get wasted on the weekends. Boo for you because I care about my liver and don't want to feel like an ass the next day. (This is for a friend who called me a party pooper prior to me getting pregnant)...
So what if I never, EVER pick up my phone. I hate talking on the phone...
So what if I let the clean laundry stay in the basket for days...I HATE PUTTING LAUNDRY AWAY!
So what if I don't want to breastfeed...not everyone does it...
So what if I get lazy sometimes and make my husband a sandwich for dinner, just because I am a woman doesn't mean that I have to slave in the kitchen every single day of my life...
So what if I hate my MIL...she's a c***t...she should not even be called a mother because she for sure hasn't earned the title...
So what if my best friend is gay, I love him and I wouldn't trade him for the world...
So what if my parents still spoil me even though I am 22, I don't ask for the things that they give me, they like to do it, I am fortunate for the parents that God gave me...
So what if I hate socializing...I'm shy...well, sometimes...
So ladies these are some of my SO WHAT'S!!! What are yours?
I applaud all of the above! I agree with every statement! If I dont care and want to do what I want to do, then why should anyone else care? I am my own person!
Ditto! Especially the party pooper one!
So what I don't associate with my sister that abuses drugs. Sure she's my sister, unconditional love, yadda yadda. It's not me being a bitch, it's me making a decision to be better than that.
Quoting mirandas_mom:You and I actually have a few things on your list in common. It's a good thing that you aren't afraid to be yourself!
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OK so here is mine. So what if I get to stay in my pj's all day long and my house isn't perfectly clean. I hate house work! but its not a pigsty and its not my problem that you don't get to play housewife
So what if I'm 41 with a child and have never been married!! I've also never been divorced, which most people in my family can't say (even those younger than me!)!!
So what if I didn't get my degree until I was 36 - at least I have one!
So what if I'd rather stay home and read a book on a free weekend night than go to a party! I partied enough in my 20's to last me a lifetime!
So what if I don't vacuum my house more than once a week - I have other things to do!!
I agree with all of the above. Although I have to say I love my MIL.
Quoting PetNurse05:
So what if I'm 41 with a child and have never been married!! I've also never been divorced, which most people in my family can't say (even those younger than me!)!!
So what if I didn't get my degree until I was 36 - at least I have one!
So what if I'd rather stay home and read a book on a free weekend night than go to a party! I partied enough in my 20's to last me a lifetime!
So what if I don't vacuum my house more than once a week - I have other things to do!!
Oh I'd rather stay home and read too. I don't want to party with people I don't know or like. I don't feel the need to get wasted every weekend. If I wanna get wasted, I'll do so in my house, with my husband.
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