HES RELLY TICKIN ME OFF I think the bartender has his eye *UPDATE* HIM BEING A DOUCHE. hE CAN STAY WITH HIS PARENTS

[mamafor6]

Seriously he has been acting distint lately. Well saturday we got into a lil tiff cause he left me at home sick with 6 kids while he pissed around at his parents house all day When he got home I went to my sisters and say you take care of the kids.

 I ended up getting hammered (for the first time in forever) and slept at my sister. She called him and let him know. Anyway I called the place where he was at with his friends to tell him that two of our kids had fevers and we had NO fever reducer but that one of our friends was looking to see if they had some. But that I may need him to come ho,e so I could go get meds for te kids he said "Jesus christ ok. call me and let me know Ill come home if I have too"

  So I called him back to tell him tat i got the one fever to 100.8 and one to 1001.2 When the bartender went to  tell him I was on the phone she said (snootily) its your old lay and he said "AGAIN" Jesus christ alright

 WTF fine whatever what would you think

 

I called him to tell him that both kids fevers were now below 99.2 so if he wanted he could stay a little late. Not in a witch tone He was like all right ill be home aroun 11 if there are no more crisises. He has done this leauge for three years tonoght is the first f  ing night I have ever called him. Holey crap

He got home about 10:15 both sick kids were asleep My DD3 woke up at about 3 with a fever of 103.2 and threw up all over my bed. I stuck her in a cool tub nd gave her motrin and went to check on DS 9 and his fever was up to 102.8 again so i gave him more meds takeing them to doc today.

[mamafor6]

All I want is to know what you ladies think come on am I over reacting?

[nemiller]

i only have one kid and i'd be pissed if my husband was acting like that when i told him he was needed at home.  but if i had 6 and 2 of them were sick?  he would be one brave man to act like he's being put-upon.

[aCajunAngel]

I think he is a d bag and if I was your friend I would have popped up at the bar and smacked him upside the head. I think they were talking shit on you.

*hugs*

[mamafor6]

Thank you I just dont get it that just really hurt

Quoting nemiller:

i only have one kid and i'd be pissed if my husband was acting like that when i told him he was needed at home.  but if i had 6 and 2 of them were sick?  he would be one brave man to act like he's being put-upon.

[corbenleesmama]

You are not overreacting at all! I would be a little more than pissed!! I would be tempted to call the manager/owner of the bar and tell them she was snotty to you!  He would bot be going out for a  long time if thats how he is going to act!! Good Luck with everything and I hope your babies get to feeling better soon!

[ymom3]

I don't think married ppl belong at bars!! I would be pissed that he doesn't even care about his kid being sick!! 

[mamafor6]

Its actually not a bar its a bowling alley /bar hes there with the mens leauge but hes been staying later and later every week.  And hes there wit family his not mine

Quoting ymom3:

I don't think married ppl belong at bars!! I would be pissed that he doesn't even care about his kid being sick!! 

[stevi3905]

Wow you're really nice. If I am sick, my man is sitting at home taking care of our kids AND ME! Also there is no going out to a bar when our kids are sick and we have one car. That's not responsible parenting on his part. 

[mommibee]

I would have gotten pissed off if my dh talked to me like that about him having to get meds for them.  If my dh was at a bar and disrespected me with the bartender in the background his ass would be grass.  I would throw all of his shit in the hard and tell him when he wants to be an adult, he can call me.  You already have six kids you don't need 7.

[AngelaVega]

I think you have every right to be pissed off because he's being a douchebag but I don't think the bartender has anything to do with anything. Sounds like he feels like he needs a break. Are you guys close in your relationship? I would try to schedule some time just for you and him. Six kids is a lot of stress and responsibility. Something has to give, and right now I think it's your relationship. I don't think doing anything that he would see as attacking him would be very helpful right now. He won't hear any of it.