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Does your SO/DH Ignore you to ? **VENT**

Posted by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:37 PM
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 Ok I'm tired of this Every DAMN night My Boyfriend plays his damn game all day every day and leaves me hanging ..... How fare is that ITS NOT !  And when i try talking to him he just sits there and totally iGNORE me WHY ? I'm tired of not having no one to talk to ... Sometimes we will be talking then all of a sudden he starts Ignoreing me AGAIN ! Does anyone else S/O - D/H do this ? What is their  problem ? Does he not care what i have to say to him ?  I cant stand it anymore he does this even when he NOT playing his game . Maybe he thinks we've been together long enough Iive done heard what she talks about many of times ! WHAT IS IT ! I get so mad at him ! When i say something to about  about it after i raise my voice He says Huh WHAT ? UGH ! We dont ever hardly talk .... I dont know what else to do so thats why im asking here !  I feel like leaving him for it ! But I think that would be silly of me to leave him for something like this .

Posted by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:37 PM
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jmomma2003
by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:39 PM

that is why the 'devil's toy' will never be allowed in this house...i do the damn ignoring around here...damnit...lol. 

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mamafor6
by Ruby Member on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:41 PM

yup cause if he aint on Wow hes at the bar or his parents house nice huh

ThatSkyGirl
by Silver Member on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:43 PM

WoW right?? Yeah I have the SAME problem.. idk what to tell you. Sorry momma, I feel ya.

la_bella_vita
by Bella on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:43 PM

I'm sorry = ( My DH does not ignore me but he also doesn't play video games. He is very into "family time" when he gets home from work.  

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mybabyapples
by Purple People Eater on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:44 PM

mine does it too..i used to not bitch so much.but now i lay it on thick.if he rather play his games then listen to me, then i rather bitch in his ear than be ignored..he still does it.but i feel better.

a good one is to make him repeat what you've said..i do it all the time.he always claims he's listening.but obviously not when he has no clue what i just said. 

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kyuteangl88
by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:44 PM

with mine it's his phone... 

taratt79
by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:45 PM

I think being ignored all the time and never speaking to you would be a good reason to leave. What kind of a relationship do you have if you NEVER talk?

therzmommy
by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:46 PM

i usually turn it off in the middle of a play (*evil laugh*) and then we usually end up fighting... after we fight we have sex and then during cuddle time we talk..... men are exhausting lol... all that just to talk

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i.heart.rachel
by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:47 PM


Quoting jmomma2003:

that is why the 'devil's toy' will never be allowed in this house...i do the damn ignoring around here...damnit...lol. 

Amen! I hear that one lol. I'm the one who ignores.. sorry!

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Wistful
by Bronze Member on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:48 PM


Quoting mybabyapples:

mine does it too..i used to not bitch so much.but now i lay it on thick.if he rather play his games then listen to me, then i rather bitch in his ear than be ignored..he still does it.but i feel better.

a good one is to make him repeat what you've said..i do it all the time.he always claims he's listening.but obviously not when he has no clue what i just said. 

OMG!! I do that tooo!! I will say something to him and he will agree...so I ask him 'What did I just say?' And he has no choice but to admit he wasn't listening.
Start treating him like a child, tell him to look you in the eyes when you are talking to him.....
My husband will ignore me, but I tell him could you focus on me please and make him look at it me.

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