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PIOG: Need some help from anyone who knows the military!

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Rio_Valley

on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:43 PM

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My son's father is in the Army. He has only paid child support once this year. CSE is of no help, I have already tried. The support is court ordered. What can I do? I have no money for a lawyer or anything like that. I don't even know where to start when it comes to dealing with the military and child support. Help please!!!!

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on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:43 PM

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Twizlr

on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:46 PM

bump I am not sure what you should do, but I know someone out there should be able to help you.

Rio_Valley

on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:48 PM

Please ladies! Any help?

littlebit1980

Bronze Member on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:48 PM

My hubbies is court ordered and took directly from his check. We can't stop it if we tried.

Leah Gillis,
8 years as a Air Force wife and loving it.

Heather0816

on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:48 PM

Do you know where he is stationed at? If so you can call the post operator and they can help you locate his unit. From there you need to contact his first sgt. They will straigten it out from there. The Army can't stand deadbeat parents!

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littlebit1980

Bronze Member on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:49 PM

True!

Quoting Heather0816:

Do you know where he is stationed at? If so you can call the post operator and they can help you locate his unit. From there you need to contact his first sgt. They will straigten it out from there. The Army can't stand deadbeat parents!

Leah Gillis,
8 years as a Air Force wife and loving it.

blondie7221

on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:49 PM

call and ask for his unit, and talk to them, I hear they dont play with stuff like this, may try going to dhs and asking for help, but i would try getting your papers to him sgt major or someone high up

KatelynsMommy

on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:49 PM

Call his command. If they dont help, keep going higher. They have to. He can go to the brig for not paying child support. They can dock his pay so it goes straight to you. PM me if u need to!

serioussifL

Platinum Member on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:50 PM

If you can somehow find out who his commander is... they will for sure straighten him out.

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Rmewyfemom

on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:50 PM

Just asked my hubby he to find out where he is at and contact the Child Support Agency and they need to contact his commander, then his commander will make sure that he sets up an allotment and possibly make sure you get back child support. Hope this helps a little

KokoJones

on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:51 PM

If you know his social security number, birth date and where he is stationed, even if it is just the state, you should be able to contact them and they will take care of it .... i hope you can track him down hun