Would your dh/so look more attractive to you....
If he worked out?
I work out 6 days a week...3 days I run and 6 days I do the P90X. All while dh does nothing.
He isn't fat by any means...h'es 6'2 weighs 180 pounds but its not like a healthly 180. he eats junk all the time and just doesn't ever work out. I ask him all the time to do the P90X with me and he will just sit and watch me do it. He tells me how good I look while i'm working out. I havn't been physically attracted to him for awhile and tell him how much more attractive he would be if he would start taking care of himself.
I don't know maybe just a vent...but it really bugs me.
Oh boy.
24 year old, God loving, non-vaxing, tutu making WAH momma to Jenelle, Gracelynn, and Sapphire. Girlfriend to Rachel (not wife, because apparently some people are AGAINST two loving, consenting adults marrying).
BTW: I don't think you are vain, it's okay to want your hubby to be healthy and hot lol. No matter what anyone says looks and appearances are important to a degree in relationships.
Ashley, Loving Mommy To Dallas and Fiancee To Howard
I'm a proud extended rear facing, disposable diapering, non cio, sometimes spanking, momma to a little rockstar.
Of coarse he'd be more attractive...muscles do that to a body. Lol.
My husband is kind of the same as yours though. Since we got married he only does PT. Before than he worked out allll the time and had a super nice body. I'm not saying he's unattracitve now. I definitely still think he's hot, but he does look even better when he works out.
No it's not that I am vain...its that his gpa used to be tall and thin like he is now and now weighs 400 pounds, has diabeties, and had a quadrouple bypass about 5 years ago....so this stuff runs in his family so I am trying to make it so we can be healthy and hopefully not have to deal with the issues his gpa has.
Quoting maxensmom:
nope. it sounds like you might be a little vain...
maybe you could ask him to just take a walk with you every now and then.
I'm sure if my DH and I got off our butts and worked out we would both look more attractive to the other one. It's human nature. I'm not saying I don't love him like he is. I do. But I can admit that some extra arm muscles might make me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Hee hee.
My dh used to do PT when he was still in and he wasn't never like "ripped" but had the flat stomach and buffer arms and looked really good...not most of it's gone to flab.
Quoting 2babybats:
Of coarse he'd be more attractive...muscles do that to a body. Lol.
My husband is kind of the same as yours though. Since we got married he only does PT. Before than he worked out allll the time and had a super nice body. I'm not saying he's unattracitve now. I definitely still think he's hot, but he does look even better when he works out.
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- sent4u5041
on Nov. 24, 2009 at 12:24 AM