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hey ladies!!! i guess this is a vent then again i am curious to how u guys feel about this...
my bestie called me today about to go ape nuts on this chick thats trying to get at her fiancee... i dnt want her doing anything crazy (one thing we dnt tolerate is triflin females.. and we WILL put foot to ass) then again the female is disrespecting her so i feel like she has the right to do whatever she feels like doing to the tramp. my bestie as well as her fiancee as already told the chick to fall back but she wont.. i hate females like that. i never understood the reason behind a female chasing/going after another womans man/husband/fiancee etc.. is it the lack of respect they have for themselves? do they think its a game? they want what they cant have? or are they just nasty bitches?... what do u ladies think about this and what are ur opinions??
I do not care what other women do. I trust my husband and I know he would put a woman in her place if she hit on him. To me there is no need to get into any kind of a verbal or physical fight with another woman.
this lady has taken it to the extreme... she has followed them home a couple of times AND she had the nerve to jump in my friend face when she was leaving walmart with her son... even after all of that u wouldnt wanna punch her out?
I would not risk hitting someone and going to jail. They should take out a restraining order. I have to wonder though if the man is not encouraging it behind your friends back. Most women will not go after someone who they know they have no chance with.
Quoting 3xangel:
this lady has taken it to the extreme... she has followed them home a couple of times AND she had the nerve to jump in my friend face when she was leaving walmart with her son... even after all of that u wouldnt wanna punch her out?
Quoting 3xangel:
this lady has taken it to the extreme... she has followed them home a couple of times AND she had the nerve to jump in my friend face when she was leaving walmart with her son... even after all of that u wouldnt wanna punch her out?
No cuz she wants a reaction, and she's not gonna get much from me. I probably be like "bitch leave me alone, or i feel so special for u to follow me, thanks bye!" and i trust my man to know what to do in that situation and leave it be. I have more respect for myself then to act just like her.
Quoting FL2AK:
I would not risk hitting someone and going to jail. They should take out a restraining order. I have to wonder though if the man is not encouraging it behind your friends back. Most women will not go after someone who they know they have no chance with. (i would also wonder that and make sure it wasn't the case)
Quoting 3xangel:
this lady has taken it to the extreme... she has followed them home a couple of times AND she had the nerve to jump in my friend face when she was leaving walmart with her son... even after all of that u wouldnt wanna punch her out?
i just read an article in cosmo magazine that said that "sub-conciously" taken men are more attractive to women, because they are percieved to be taking care of their woman, and you see them being romantic alot, but dont see them when they are just being normal, and farting and burping etc. lol.
i think its just the chase for some women, low self esteem, so they want to higher their self esteem by seeing if they can get a man to cheat or leave who he is with for her. if it was my friend, i would tell her to ignore the chick..and hopefully her fiance is doing the same. she will go away, unless she is a complete nutcase, then shed be more then a nuisance, maybe turning into a stalker. in my experience, if the man isnt giving the women attention, she will get lost.
from what i knw he is not entertaining this woman.. the guy and the stalker chick used to be good friends until stalker chick boyfriend dumped her. ever since then she has been trying to push up on my friends man.. 1st she used the excuse he is my best friend and i need his support then it moved to her tellin him how she wants him and he need to leave my friend blah blah.. her fiancee lets her knw everytime the woman tries to contact him
Get a restraining order on her. You and your friend are to grown and have kids or at least you do to be putting your foot anywhere. Being in jail cost money, you can lose your jobs, plus imagin what being away from your kids would do to them and it just ain't worth the drama but that is what happends when you assult people. If her man is about her then she has nothing to worry about ol girl can look but as long as she don't touch your friend has nothing to worry about.

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