Im haveing a pitty party this morning.... I get on myspace and its like everyones status is pregnant, expecting, omg I cant believe im pregnant.. blah blah blah... and NO ONE TRIED or they are the last people that need children or more children, they are opps'es lol ( not bashing!... alot) anyways I've been trying a year and It makes me jealous, and sad,and angry... if my dh finds out a couple are expecting he doesnt even tell me now its so pathetic but damn when is it going to be my turn?! so Im having a pitty party if you would like to come please feel free to join in.. but I had to get that out there.
* big hugs * it will happen when you least expect it... my hubs and i went off of bc august of 08 and nothing for months and months.. then he got sent for training in chicago while our daughters and i got settled in virginia and he came home and the first month he was home we got preggo... wasn't even trying at that point, was just happy to have him home after three long months apart. have you gone to the doc to make sure everything is ok?
Koko- navy wife-mommy of two- currently baking baby #3
Quoting AirForceWife412:
i'm sorry you feel that way. when you finally give up and quit trying is when it normally happens. good luck!i think today is "PITY PARTY" day. i'm having one too. today is my son's first day of daycare.
I remember that day 2 years ago.. my dd didnt last a week and I pulled her out and quit my job, but hugs! and thanks.. :)
Quoting AirForceWife412:
i'm sorry you feel that way. when you finally give up and quit trying is when it normally happens. good luck!i think today is "PITY PARTY" day. i'm having one too. today is my son's first day of daycare.
awww, that is hard! Hugs for you too.
I agree, take your mind off of it for awhile (I know it's easier said than done) focus on something else and that is when it will happen! Good luck Momma.
Quoting KokoJones:
* big hugs * it will happen when you least expect it... my hubs and i went off of bc august of 08 and nothing for months and months.. then he got sent for training in chicago while our daughters and i got settled in virginia and he came home and the first month he was home we got preggo... wasn't even trying at that point, was just happy to have him home after three long months apart. have you gone to the doc to make sure everything is ok?
we tried 6 months and my doc told me if nothing by dec we would try some tests and clomid (SP?) and provera so IDK but im tired of waiting! lol.. especially when others are pregges left and right!
I TOTALLY know how you feel.. many different reasons... when i was first ttc my daughter (who is 17months now) we were trying for a few months- and my SIL got pregnant.... by an "oops" and didnt even want it...so she aborted. she "already had 2 kids" and "couldnt work at her job if she was pregnant (hooters)" ugh.... i was SO pissed- here i was... TRYING to get pregnant and here she was THROWING hers AWAY!! gah, it still rattles my brain!
oh, and id like to ttc again, but we are waiting til we get a house with 3 bedrooms and have a second car... it seems like that will be FOREVER and all these girls are getting pregnant and dont even want the babies!! or, didnt want to get pregnant.. and are making the best out of their situation (which is great) but makes me semi jealous!! so i feel you somewhat girl... its gunna happen when its SUPPOSE to happen!!
Good Luck 
and Baby Dust!! 
we havent tried in 3-4 months.. it was starting to take the fun in trying away so I quit checking with test, and tracking with monitors.. Im just gonna wait till after dec. I guess what got me thinking about it this morning was a friends status was omg pregnant... I was like DAMN! lol.. and then she found out her IUD fell out she has those kinds of odds its sucky! 
Good luck, stay positive! I know it sucks when stuff like that happens, but when you do get pregnant, your baby will be SO wanted and loved and you will have an amazing pregnancy. It sucks to wait, but it will be worth it! I hope it happens for you soon. =D
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on Nov. 24, 2009 at 8:55 AM