So I was thinking (cause I really had nothing better to do this morning lol) if your DH wanted to have sex and you did not would you consider it a form of rape if he persisted and you gave in but just really laid there till he finished. Now no I am so not one of those women lol but I was curious to know after reading how many women say they never say no to there husband even if they have to fake it. Is there ever a time you think you would become resentful of your husband for having to "fake" it just to please him?
no that is not rape. Rape is when he forces himself on you while you are still saying no.
If you consent, then no. While I have never said no to hubby, I have never faked it. He also knows me well enough to not even ask or try anything if I am upset or not feeling well.
Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of our Lord Jesus Christ. ~Proclamation, September 23,1995~
If you consent then it is NOT rape .It is only rape if he forces you while you are telling him no and yes even if your married it is rape.
I am one of the woman that never say no to my DH and no I don't resent him.I don't fake it either though.If I'm really not into he will know.I don't understand how any man can not know a woman is faking.If you have a real orgasm your muscles inside you contract and your so/dh should be able to feel that.My DH said he can feel it if I orgasm but he is not happy unless he satisfies me as well.Sometimes I will just have to tell him I ain't going to get there so just finish lol.
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on Nov. 24, 2009 at 9:20 AM