What's the biggest.....there will probably be alot of anonymous replies if any; no bashing please!

[BigBoMom]

Whats the biggest secret (if any) have you ever kept from your DH or SO? (probably not what you were thinking when you decided to read this right?)

mine is really embarassing....and stupid for keeping from him. we have recently been having money problems and we had a couple of checks bounce and i didn't tell him. I was taking care of it (paying monthly on what we owed) and then another one came in and the DA filed charges. Well while he was at work one day i got arrested. i bailed out and the nexted day had to borrow money from family to pay everything off so that they would drop the charges. All this happened and he doesn't know. i don't know how he doesn't know other than i just haven't sat down and talked with him about it, i have not tried to hide the letters and public notices or anything like that and then i just got overwhelmed and it was all done before i could tell him. now i just don't want to because it will look like i was hiding it on purpose. anyway just wanting to know if anyone else has ever hid something like this.

[Davids_Wife1307]

None. I honestly can't think of anything I know, that I haven't already told him. 

[lvnthegoodlife]

LOL. The only secret that I have really ever kept from him is hiding my credit card bill sometimes lol. I pay it myself the majority of the time with the money I get from cleaning a family friends house and babysitting a friends daughter but if I get crazy with it sometimes I will hide the bill from him just to avoid the argument lol. That's about the extent of it.

[anetrnlov]

I don't keep any secrets from him.

[missamanda86]

i dont keep secrets from my husband

[myfoursonsks]

The biggest secret I have kept from my husband is a pretty big one.  We had some issues in our relationship about 10 years ago.  He did some things that were very inappropriate and I kicked him out.  We were separated for about 8 months.  During that time, I started "seeing" an old boyfriend.  I never told my husband about it.  I figured since we were split up because of the things he did in the first place that what I did when we weren't together was none of his business. 

[JaydenMatthew]

usually when his family asks me for stuff, I would buy it for them and not tell him. They always wouldcall me when they needed something (ie: new washer/dryer, phone bills paid, psp for the boys, even fireworks for the 4th lol), and I couldnt tell them No. But Now I just say No, it got to be too much.

[pinkblackandblu]

I said no. My husband knows everything he NEEDS to know and i know everything that i NEED to know about him. There are somethings that dont need to be to said. 

[sll1976]

My life is an open book to DH. 

[Q0112]

you got arrested and he doesn't know? wow!

[kk_bella]

I don't 'keep secrets' from him, but I also don't keep a running tab of everything I do and everywhere I go all the time.

So yeah, there are things he doesn't know about, but they aren't secrets, I would tell him if it came up, if he asked, if he needed to know for some reason.