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Posted by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:00 PM
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 Im lost here. So please, answer me this.

WHEN did it become ok for a father to flake on his parental obligations?

Why is it ok for a father to not help out...yet a mother is lazy when she doesn't?

I read how so many women think its acceptable..

And yet, these same women wonder why exhusbands flake on their children! Uh, DUH if they don't have to help while they LIVE there, why would they help when they LEAVE?!?!

Can ANYONE explain it?!?!


proud 20 year old mommy to the love of my life Wyatt, born 01.08.09 and totally in love to my Marine Patrick since 01.10.08

Posted by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:00 PM
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simplee_me
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:02 PM

Not something I can explain to you..  I don't personally share that opinion.

RissaBusch
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:02 PM

 Damn I thought I was going to get to tell a joke.

USMCBride08
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:03 PM

LOL tell away if ya want =]

Quoting RissaBusch:

 Damn I thought I was going to get to tell a joke.



proud 20 year old mommy to the love of my life Wyatt, born 01.08.09 and totally in love to my Marine Patrick since 01.10.08

AnnemarieAurora
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:04 PM

It's never been okay. They just have a double standard... Like if a woman has had multiple partners, she's a whore, yet a man can sleep with whomever and he's congratulated. My daughter's father has been there since she was born... He was at the hospital, but refused to go on the birth certificate, and has only seen her a handful of times since then. But, that's only when I have to go pick up mail from his house because it's accidentally sent there. Yet, when people hear about how he doesn't have a job, sleeps on the floor of a friend's house, they feel sorry for him. What they don't realize is that he doesn't TRY to better himself....

It has never been okay, yet people accept it. But, when it happens to them, it's a whole other story... 

USMCBride08
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:11 PM

BUmp 


proud 20 year old mommy to the love of my life Wyatt, born 01.08.09 and totally in love to my Marine Patrick since 01.10.08

armywifenmommie
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:22 PM

i didnt know it was okay for a father to flake on their responsibilities..i would like to know the answer to these questions too. probably have to ask someone who says its okay why they feel its okay. 

mommyoftwo103
by Cora Munro on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:24 PM

What! No jokes?? darn!

RissaBusch
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:25 PM

Ok here's the joke:

 

 

 

Obama

 

 

 

hahahahahahahaha.  Ok sorry, I had to. 


Quoting USMCBride08:

LOL tell away if ya want =]

Quoting RissaBusch:

 Damn I thought I was going to get to tell a joke.

 



USMCBride08
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:27 PM

LOL

know theres a huge uproar over a michelle obama pic? they made her look like a monkey.

yet they did the same shit to bush and it was funny

Quoting RissaBusch:

Ok here's the joke:

  

  

  

Obama

  

  

  

hahahahahahahaha.  Ok sorry, I had to. 

 

Quoting USMCBride08:

LOL tell away if ya want =]

Quoting RissaBusch:

 Damn I thought I was going to get to tell a joke.

 





proud 20 year old mommy to the love of my life Wyatt, born 01.08.09 and totally in love to my Marine Patrick since 01.10.08

mommyoftwo103
by Cora Munro on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:28 PM

LOL! good one!

Quoting RissaBusch:

Ok here's the joke:

 

 

 

Obama

 

 

 

hahahahahahahaha.  Ok sorry, I had to. 


Quoting USMCBride08:

LOL tell away if ya want =]

Quoting RissaBusch:

 Damn I thought I was going to get to tell a joke.

 




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