I think my husband is a major douch bag, what do you think?
I'm gonna give you the short story on this. My husband is in a band. The manager is a girl. She has only been the manager for a short while but she has been going to their practice's since they got together. She is an awsome manager, but, in my opinion she is getting way to close to my husband. He told me the other day that she is his new best friend. They have been together every day for the past 2 weeks. At our son's birthday party he spent most of the afternoon with her (and her other man friends) in his camper while I had to deal with his family. He has been told by more than one of his other friends that it looks like he has something going on with this girl. It makes me, now pregnant with our second child, feel like shit because of the way he carries on with this girl. I've asked him to back off a little, because I'm not the type of person to tell someone who they can or can't be friends with, but everytime he says he will the next day he is at her house or she is at ours while i'm at work. She is a single girl and she isn't ugly. I just don't know what to do. It's like they can't stay away from each other. He literaly spends more time with her than he has with me in the past 2 weeks. I don't think anything is going on but he clears his text messages right after he gets them and his call list once a day before I get home. That just makes him look guilty of something. And he gets mad at me because he thinks I don't trust him but it's hard to trust someone when they carry on like this. Besides that, I'm not blind and I can see the way this girl looks at him and talks to him. I mean for gods sake she has a pet name for him!! He doesn't see anything wrong with it and he can't understand why I have such a big problem with all this. So am I overreacting or do you think that my concerns have weight to them?
If he had nothing to hide why would he clear his texts and call log? Those are red flags to me. Not to mention the spending time together thing. It would piss me off.
Lots of red flags.
Great title by the way ;)
Quoting Tia_B:If he had nothing to hide why would he clear his texts and call log? Those are red flags to me. Not to mention the spending time together thing. It would piss me off.
Lots of red flags.
Great title by the way ;)
in all honesty i would not trust him at all i'd think something was going on i don't want to believe he would do that with you and his child and especially you being pregnant but that's what i would think. he wouldn't delete stuff if he had nothing to hide
He's cheating. He can control how much time he is spending with her. Is this a hobby or are they actually making money? Most managers spend their time trying to get gigs and cds.
If he's not cheating already, he soon will be.
Time to put your foot down!
Quoting Tia_B:If he had nothing to hide why would he clear his texts and call log? Those are red flags to me. Not to mention the spending time together thing. It would piss me off.
Lots of red flags.
Great title by the way ;)
This. And he obviously doesn't respect you or your feelings..that is NOT ok.
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on Nov. 24, 2009 at 3:40 PM