Why are you a bad mother?

[myfoursonsks]

So, everyone seems to be called a bad mother on here fairly often.  They get told that they should not have children at all.  So, I want to know why you have been told you were a bad mother and should have your kids taken away.

 

I got called a bad mother because I said that one of my children was just "average" looking.  This is while he is going through a very awkward phase of development that happens to us all. 

 

[myfoursonsks]

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[SommerP]

I have not yet had the experience of being called a bad mother here on CM, but my s/o's mom thinks I am because I don't give my daughter whatever she wants.

[perfectkitten]

God I can't remember. I have been called one frequently. I don't care though! 

My Pro-choice views and not allowing my daughter(s) to have children at a young age.

The PE teacher giving to much physical activity as homework

Those are the most recent.

 

[jessierenee]

I'm a bad mother because my 8 yr old is a boxer.

[nemiller]

i've never been called a bad mother.  the only time i'd even take it seriously is if someone close to me said it, and nobody close to me would say it because i'm NOT a bad mother.

[Elijahsmommy9]

I was told I was a bad mother because I made my son sleep in his crib. His crib is 3 feet away from my bed lol

[shecallsmemom04]

you're a horrible mother because you own a pit bull.  tisk tisk.

Quoting Elijahsmommy9:

I was told I was a bad mother because I made my son sleep in his crib. His crib is 3 feet away from my bed lol

[myfoursonsks]

I am talking about the women that say it to each other on here because their ways of parenting are so much better.  Women on here tend to throw that around a lot.  I have never had anyone in real life say it to me.  If they knew what I had been through with my son that I mentioned above and all of his medical issues, they wouldn't even dare. 

Quoting nemiller:

i've never been called a bad mother.  the only time i'd even take it seriously is if someone close to me said it, and nobody close to me would say it because i'm NOT a bad mother.

[Elijahsmommy9]

OOOH yeah! That's even worse than not co sleeping! I'm going to go slit my wrists lol

Quoting shecallsmemom04:

you're a horrible mother because you own a pit bull.  tisk tisk.

Quoting Elijahsmommy9:

I was told I was a bad mother because I made my son sleep in his crib. His crib is 3 feet away from my bed lol

[mcsmom1]

I've been told I'm a bad mother because my DD has too many material possessions...go figure.