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I GET IT IM NOT AS THIN AS YOU!!!!!

Posted by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 5:58 PM
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I really hate people, Why do people feel the need to tell me that im not as thin as i used to be? You think i havent noticed? b.c i used to fit in to a size 2 and now i cant fit my leg in to those pants? I GET IT no need to remind me.

I hate being reminded that If i dont loose weight no one will want me b.c im used up, and being thin will be the only way anyone will accept a single mom like me.

I find it painful and dont need it rubbed in my face anymore. Im sorry I dont have a husband, Im sorry that my relationship with my kids father didnt work out, Im sorry my new boy friend dumped me, Im sorry you think im a dumbass. 


GOD IM SORRY MOM, now SHUT THE FUCK UP




Posted by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 5:58 PM
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Fit_Momma_Of_2
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 6:00 PM

Hun, you need to learn how to pretend you're listening but really just blocking it out :) HUGS!! 

CarolynS898
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 6:00 PM

Its hard not to listen when you hear it all the time.

Quoting Fit_Momma_Of_2:

Hun, you need to learn how to pretend you're listening but really just blocking it out :) HUGS!! 


Crazy-Steph
by Ruby Member on Nov. 24, 2009 at 6:00 PM

Or, just tell them to STFU.

Quoting Fit_Momma_Of_2:

Hun, you need to learn how to pretend you're listening but really just blocking it out :) HUGS!! 


liddellmama
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 6:01 PM

I hope yu feel a little better now getting that out.  (((hugs))) punching pillows works great too   :) 

         
            

raegansmom
by Cyndi on Nov. 24, 2009 at 6:01 PM

I say skip all the 'I'm sorry's" and leave it at "Shut the fuck up!!"

Trinity0820
by Silver Member on Nov. 24, 2009 at 6:02 PM

Dont worry about what other people say.. just because you are a mom does NOT mean you are used up, and be thankful you dont weigh as much as me... I am overweight for quite a few reasons. One is pregnancy and two is a hormonal imbalance that I can not keep the weight off. I have never been a size two since I was a toddler. I am like 235lbs, and yes it sucks but I do not let it get to me... Keep your head up hun... DOnt let attacks on your appearance get to you! 

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6kids1man
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 6:02 PM

I am sorry mama! I have been there before with my mother and it sucks!!! It seems like once I stoped thinking about it the weight did come off and now she hates it because I wear her clothes and she has nothing to complain about!  But you know who you are and size does not equal beauty!  I think you are gorgeous by the way!

elopez311
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 6:02 PM

I'm sorry. My mom is the worst at that too. But really, being thin is not the only way a single mom will get a man and just try and ignore her. I know its hard but its either tell her exactly how you feel or completely ignore her.

JasonsMom2007
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 6:04 PM

When I was in high school I was in a size 8.  I ate 3 bites of food a day and rode my bike 16 miles a day.  It was NOT a healthy way to live.  I have had bad ankles all of my life and my dad actually had the nerve to tell me that if I would loose some weight they would feel better.  Ummm... how?  Should I not eat ANY food or should I ride more than 16 miles per day?

I would LOVE to be a size 8 again!  Everybody was worried about how skinny I was for me though (I have a larger build), except my dad.  Nothing like my mom going "you're too skinny, you need to eat more" while my dad said "you need to loose some weight."

 














mamivon2
by Sandra on Nov. 24, 2009 at 6:06 PM

AHH they are just jelous of your figure. Dont worry about it.  Or you can just simply say:

I might have  gained some weight but  I can lose it but you are ugly what are  you gonna do about it?!!

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