I really hate people, Why do people feel the need to tell me that im not as thin as i used to be? You think i havent noticed? b.c i used to fit in to a size 2 and now i cant fit my leg in to those pants? I GET IT no need to remind me.
I hate being reminded that If i dont loose weight no one will want me b.c im used up, and being thin will be the only way anyone will accept a single mom like me.
I find it painful and dont need it rubbed in my face anymore. Im sorry I dont have a husband, Im sorry that my relationship with my kids father didnt work out, Im sorry my new boy friend dumped me, Im sorry you think im a dumbass.
GOD IM SORRY MOM, now SHUT THE FUCK UP
Or, just tell them to STFU.
Quoting Fit_Momma_Of_2:
Hun, you need to learn how to pretend you're listening but really just blocking it out :) HUGS!!
I say skip all the 'I'm sorry's" and leave it at "Shut the fuck up!!"
Dont worry about what other people say.. just because you are a mom does NOT mean you are used up, and be thankful you dont weigh as much as me... I am overweight for quite a few reasons. One is pregnancy and two is a hormonal imbalance that I can not keep the weight off. I have never been a size two since I was a toddler. I am like 235lbs, and yes it sucks but I do not let it get to me... Keep your head up hun... DOnt let attacks on your appearance get to you!
I am sorry mama! I have been there before with my mother and it sucks!!! It seems like once I stoped thinking about it the weight did come off and now she hates it because I wear her clothes and she has nothing to complain about! But you know who you are and size does not equal beauty! I think you are gorgeous by the way!
When I was in high school I was in a size 8. I ate 3 bites of food a day and rode my bike 16 miles a day. It was NOT a healthy way to live. I have had bad ankles all of my life and my dad actually had the nerve to tell me that if I would loose some weight they would feel better. Ummm... how? Should I not eat ANY food or should I ride more than 16 miles per day?
I would LOVE to be a size 8 again! Everybody was worried about how skinny I was for me though (I have a larger build), except my dad. Nothing like my mom going "you're too skinny, you need to eat more" while my dad said "you need to loose some weight."


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- CarolynS898
on Nov. 24, 2009 at 5:58 PM